Great post.
I dont get turned on whatsoever by an "object" in my arse, does literally nothing for me I respect that for others it does for them. I never entertained or liked the idea of being pegged by a girlfriend.
With men, its just the actual physical act of a man taking me from behind that I lust and crave for. When my fuckbuddy overpowers me and takes me from behind, I find his masculinity so overwhelming and attractive. Its unbelievably sexy and so humbling and degrading for me as he is much older, taller and larger than me, so there is massive power dynamics at play here.
He knows that I like it when he "forces" himself on me and he enjoys me "resisting", which is massive turn on for him and gets him more horny. He gets very "aggressive" when he wants to get inside me and only calms down once he has penetrated my hole, after bouncing and probing around the outer part of it, trying to get it in. Once inside me, he goes at gentle controlled pace, till that moment when he is close to cumming. Then he becomes like an animal on heat, he starts grunting aggressively, while his sweaty hairy body pounds mine. Nothing is sexier for me, than when he cums deep inside me and he collapses his sweaty body on mine.
Literally I am covered in his juices outside and on the inside. So the anal experience, really hits and overloads all the 5 senses, sight, hearing, smell, touch and taste. Its why I have often said on here, I dont care about my orgasm as anal sex with my fuckbuddy is all the enjoyment I need and want. Often after he cums, I will just give myself hand relief inside 30 seconds, so that we can both enjoy the post orgasm bliss in each others arms and fall asleep for a while.
To be fair to my fuckbuddy, there is also plenty of times where he will be in the mood to "make love" to me. The anal sex here is so vastly different, he is very affectionate and sweet with the way we have sex. Sure I love and enjoy the aggressive fucking, but the making love times, gives balance and is nice as something different that we do together. He dictates when, so in many ways I get surprised by the sex we have.