I hear ya, guys. I should explain, though, that my wife is always after me to go ahead and show, and the more the better. I do so for her frequently, depending on where we're going to be, but I've just never been really at ease with it. Too many embarassing situations in my past, I guess, including many that she's put me in! (lol) Not that I'm complaining, though. Our relationship has always included a lot of loving sexual teasing and play, and I wouldn't change it for anything. Trust me, I've done my share of it to her, too!
OK, having said all that, I have to admit you're right. I shouldn't give a hoot what anyone else says or thinks, and in fact I've gotten a lot better about it in recent years. I really wish I could be totally uncaring about it, but I don't seem to be able to get to that point. Like I said, we all have our own hang-ups. I do like the philosophy of "You might as well love the one you have", though. That makes good sense no matter what part of the anatomy we're talking about!
B-man