I share a 3 bedroom college apartment with 3 other guys. 1 guy has a single room, I have a single room, and the other 2 share a double. My room is right in the middle of the two and directly in front of the bathroom so when any action happens in my room, it's not hard to miss. What sucks the most is that there is about a 1 inch crack at the bottom of the door so if there is a fire or anything the smoke can be easily detected. My roommates are around a lot and when they do come and go it's really unpredictable since we don't really let each other know where we're going or what we're doing. That sometimes becomes a hassle when your trying to bring girls (or guys) over for a romp cuz you can hear ANYTHING from that crack at the bottom of my door. So it's rare that I'll get loud during sex unless I know I'm alone. If I know I have the place to myself then I'll get verbal, but other than that deep breathing is as far as I'll go cuz anyone can walk in at anytime. Let's say I lived in my own place, I guess it would truly depend on what the girl is doing...I'd follow her lead; if she's loud, I'm loud. But either way, I'm not into putting on a show for my roommates and getting all loud and verbal just to show off.