I know most of us men will jack it while watching a porn video or looking at nude images of women. Sometimes we like to focus on specific parts (tits, ass, mouth, etc.) and other times it is the total woman we're looking at.
How about you ladies? DO you masturbate to videos/photos of naked men? If so do you ever focus on specific parts? Please do describe a typical session for you.
No. My mind is wired differently. Visuals, on itsself, don't do anything for me. The guy behind it does.
I watch porn, and I masturbate to it, but usually after, not while watching. Watching porn where you can clearly tell the male actor is respecting the woman and is intent on giving her a good time (say James Deen, George Uhl, some of Manuel Ferrara, Derrick Pierce...). The guy doesn't even have to be hot. He doesn't have to have a big dick. He needs to have the right attitude. He needs to be dominant and at the same time, completely focussed on the woman he's with. And he has to be able to read her.
It takes a while for my brain to get turned on. So the feel of the scene, the way the guy treats the woman, the way he responds to what she does, and how well the couple "vibes" are the things that get me going.
I could be watching a romance movie and get the same effect, only, I like some sexy smoochings. Getting turned on is a slow process for me. The longer I watched porn or the longer my brain is getting turn-on-signals, the better my orgasm will be. Also depends on my hormonal cycle. Both my choice of porn and how fast/big my orgasm is.
So there, you got an honest answer. Though I'm not sure that's one you wanted to hear?
