Do you mind a little bush?

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  1. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Im curious how many women here actually dont bother to do the porn star pubic hair look. I was a shaver for 12 years up until this past year. I prefer to be au naturale not just because its easy but the ingrown hairs were getting worse as my skin has become more and more sensitive over the years.

    My husband prefers me natural because it he said its intoxicating to rub his nose in it when i sit on his face. He says it also retains the phermone smells more than when i was completely shaved.

    I'm not very bushy even when fully grown out so thats probably another reason why he and i arent bothered by it. I love to tug on my pubic hair while masturbating. Its like this natural thing i do without even thinking about it.

    I recently dyed my blonde pubic hair to red just to see what it looked like. Many redheads have red pubic hair and mine is more strawberry blonde naturally. I like it red. Redheads are known for not being as hairy of people compared to others.

    Any women here to actually like their pubic hair? Any men who like pubic hair not to be shaved to a thin strip or shaved completely? I think porn has set the bar for what a lot of people find sexy. I will add that a lot of 70's and 80's porn had some massively huge bushes- that i dont find attractive esp. when there is a lot of perineal and ass hair on a woman.

    Just keeping the conversation going!
     
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    i don't mind a bit of bush at all. your husband is definitely not the only one who likes the feeling of it and hes dead right when he says the hair traps the pheromones - the smell of a good pussy is a massive turn on.

    i agree though that the perineum and ass should be kept as hair-free as one can.

    p.s. i'd much rather a nice bush than those red spot/blotchy things that appear from shaving.
     
  3. IntoxicatingToxin

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    I'm au naturale. I used to shave, but I had the same issue with ingrown hairs. Then I decided to just trim, but it was a pain in the ass to keep it up, and like you, I don't have a lot of hair. I'm not super bushy. So I'm just keepin' it the way it is.
     
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    I prefer the natural look myself. My wife does not shave or trim; then again, she is not all that 'bushy'.

    I have trimmed mine a few times. No shaving; don't care for the look. My bush is rather full; I am somewhat hairy all over. I have dyed mine several times to keep the gray under control. Looks much better with a little color.

    I have seen one or two guys at the gym who shave. One in particular is rather unusual. He is very, very hairy. However, he only shaves the area around his penis. His chest, legs, arms, stomach are left untouched. All you see is a small shave area around the penis. I'm think he does this to help make the penis look longer-not being lost in all the hair.
     
  5. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Are your pubic hairs kinda straight? Im curious to see if its just me or what. I hardly have a wave to them. I've got to wonder if us less hairy women have the less curly hair down there. My husbands hairs curl like mad. He's hairy as hell.
     
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    I really miss women with a nice neat triangle...



    i am a child of the 80s...the totally shaved/waxed thing makes women look pre-pubescent.
     
  7. IntoxicatingToxin

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    No, mine's curly. I'm not sure what makes a difference in whether it's straight or not.

    I agree!! Another reason I don't like shaving.
     
  8. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    I find the triangle to be visually appealing. If you look at old vintage black and white erotica photos, the women always have the signature feminine triangle. I think most men would find those images attractive. I did make the mistake of trying to have a strip not too long ago, im working on growing that back out because i love the triangle.

    I grew up seeing my mom naked at times, we werent a shy family with the ladies. I remember envying her pubic hair at a kid. Now she has a strip, but when i was a kid i couldnt wait to grow up and get lady hairs for it signified womanliness to me. I guess i forgot about that and started shaving it off early in my teen years.

    I have an almost 6 year old daughter, i dont want to look like she does. I'd rather her have a distinction between her parts being childlike and my parts being womanly.
     
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    I have been shaving for ten years but I dont shave above my cock as I get the shaving bumps too. On the ladies I basically like a trimmed bush with a shaved labia. For me that is heaven.

    Honestly I cant stand a hairy bush. It makes it very hard for me to go down on a lady. Im not sure if that hesitation is due to a past experience I had but it just doesnt work for me.

    Broken:biggrin1:
     
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    i agree...but you don;t even have to go as far back as black and white...for me, as a young man born in 71, my first images of women nude was in the late 70s, like Bo Derek, and then the playboy models of the 80s, and later the porn of the mid-late 80s.

    I grew up loving that look, and it was always exciting to see what was down there when with a lady...the first time i ever saw one live, was just so awesome, and i would not have felt the same way if i'd seen one with nothing down there...not to mention it is nice to feel that when you go down there

    it is visually appealing and there is also something magical and alluring about it too...

    I can handle landing strips though i'd rather they have a triangle...but totally bald really ticks me off :mad:
     
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    well everyone has a different amount of hair they could choke you with. You might have had one of those super hairy ones. I love to feel pubic hair sway with my husbands heavy breathing when he's down on me.
     
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    Gwendolyn Hajek is my favorite! Her bush has such a warm rich color. Mine would look like hers if it were dark in color. Thanks for those links. I forget just how beautiful the women were back in my childhood during the 80's.
     
  13. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    It's no glamour shot, but here ya go. I thought i'd show it before i put my jeans on.
     

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    yes, i love those ladies...I am glad I grew up right when i did, because those were the women that made the impression in me...curvy with a nice triangle and big boobs...my favorite.


    some more...

    http://www.freeweb.hu/playboymagazin/playboy/8008_Victoria_Cooke.jpg

    and of course my all time fave...PAtty Farinelli

    http://www.freeweb.hu/playboymagazin/playboy/8112_Patricia_Farinelli.jpg
     
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    hooray :biggrin1:

    the red baron strikes again.
     
  16. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Sorry for the dreadful strip in that pic. I had a fetish photoshoot a few weeks back and i didnt know if they were going to do any total nudes so i stripped up just in case!
     
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    I'm not really hairy and I vary between shaving and trimmed, but I can't remember the last time I just let it be totally natural. I don't like strips or little bits of hair here and there, I think either go for hair or don't.
     
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    I alternate between a landing strip and a star like this one.
     
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