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My cousin has just started dating a fly in/fly out miner who I have yet to meet. She and I are close but normally we don't tell each other the dirty details about someone we are dating. However she told me that when she first had sex with this new guy she could not believe how big his cock was. She estimates it to be 10" and she says it is definitely the biggest she has had. He fucked her 2 times that first night and another 2 times the next morning and when he left she said she had to put ice on her pussy cause he pounded it out. I am just curious as to whether it would bother you, if you were him, that she told her gay cousin? I don't want him to be uncomfortable around me knowing that I know.
 

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I wouldn't care one way or the other.....a few in my circle of friends know....cause I got a very public bj once....and the people around bring It up alot.....It was a wild wild night...that often gets talked about....besides public bj....was a wild night
 

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it used to in the beginning when one of my earlier girlfriends would kiss and tell to all her other girlfriends. i would get these looks of lust and/or disgust depending on the situation and it was very awkward or uncomfortable at times. i was young and naive back then and really did care what other people thought of me.

fast forward to today, i don't give zero fucks now. i don't care who knows i'm packing. now i know that people will either be jealous, envious, and/or simply curious. i don't advertise and i don't flaunt. i guess i just let the mystery live on in their heads and i move on with life. it just doesn't bother me anymore cause my outlook on life has changed.

on a side note, my wife has openly shared about my package with her girlfriends and i've openly slept with a few of them because of it. i will say that the women that does know and are into me are extremely nice and very open around me, which is all good fun.

to the OP: i doubt the miner-dude will care at all. if anything, it will only stroke his ego.
 
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My cousin has just started dating a fly in/fly out miner who I have yet to meet. She and I are close but normally we don't tell each other the dirty details about someone we are dating. However she told me that when she first had sex with this new guy she could not believe how big his cock was. She estimates it to be 10" and she says it is definitely the biggest she has had. He fucked her 2 times that first night and another 2 times the next morning and when he left she said she had to put ice on her pussy cause he pounded it out. I am just curious as to whether it would bother you, if you were him, that she told her gay cousin? I don't want him to be uncomfortable around me knowing that I know.

Another girl who thinks she has seen a 10" cock.

Please, get these girls a working tape measure!
 

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Generally no. I expect partners will talk. I'm concerned when a partner who is cheating tells the person they're cheating on about me specifically. That can cause problems.
 

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I wouldn't care one way or the other.....a few in my circle of friends know....cause I got a very public bj once....and the people around bring It up alot.....It was a wild wild night...that often gets talked about....besides public bj....was a wild night
Yeah, we gotta hear about that night, and that public BJ!
 
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Another girl who thinks she has seen a 10" cock.

Please, get these girls a working tape measure!

It's not exclusively women that can't measure. I've seen plenty of posts from men on here about the "14 inch dick" that they fucked and/or sucked................. :p

As for the OP:

I wouldn't personally share details of my sex life with a cousin, because I don't have that kind of a relationship with any of my cousins. I've given general advice about sex to one, but explicit details about my relationships? Not so much. I would rather not have my sweetie tell explicit details about our sex life to any of his cousins, either. I would prefer that kind of stuff mostly be between only the two of us. Talking in general about it with a close friend who isn't a gossip is fine, but with my views on stuff I think it would be fucking strange to tell it to any relative. If it were me? I wouldn't be very pleased that they were gossiping about explicit details of my sex life with anyone, without getting some kind of an okay for doing so. It wouldn't have anything to do with sexual orientation or gender of the people involved. It just is my private/personal life, is all. Would it be a deal breaker, though? Probably not.
 

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My question would be, Do you think she would tell him that she told you about their fun time together ?
Honestly I am not sure if she will tell him Guess thats why I am asking I don't want to mention it in front of him if he doesn't know she told me and he has a problem with a gay guy knowing
 

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Honestly I am not sure if she will tell him Guess thats why I am asking I don't want to mention it in front of him if he doesn't know she told me and he has a problem with a gay guy knowing
Then don't worry about..what he doesn't know will not hurt him... enjoy the fact that you know and he doesn't know what your thinking when you see him and you have a grin on your face....:yum
 
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Say Hi to your cousin for me, I really like her. Tell her I'll be flying in again soon.
 

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I don't care whether others know or not. It is my dick; it is big. If they can or cannot deal with it, it is their problem and theirs alone.
What Horse said may sound kinda cocky to some, but I think that is a healthy attitude to have about it.
 

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It's not exclusively women that can't measure. I've seen plenty of posts from men on here about the "14 inch dick" that they fucked and/or sucked................. :p

Frankly- I think women's inability to gauge correct size is ENTIRELY down to male misrepresentation of their length.

Women don't have sex with a cock they think is 10", they have sex with a cock that is slightly larger than what some guy told them was his 9" cock. It was actually 7.
 
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