Do You Oblige His Kinks?

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I've always had an aversion to getting cum on my face. Porn does it so much I'm like blah. But my new fwb has a big fantasy surrounding cumming on my face. He has never done it before. His sexy talk about wanting to "cum all over that cute little face" makes me want what he wants. I take pleasure in his pleasure.

Ladies, is there any guy you've bent your rules for? Let's discuss.
 
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When in a committed relationship, I'm pretty willing to explore with very few exceptions. My exclusions include real pain, non-monogamy, scat/watersports, and anything degrading. Cumming on my face smacks of degradation so I'd have to really understand the root of his desire for it before I'd consider it.
 

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When in a committed relationship, I'm pretty willing to explore with very few exceptions. My exclusions include real pain, non-monogamy, scat/watersports, and anything degrading. Cumming on my face smacks of degradation so I'd have to really understand the root of his desire for it before I'd consider it.

Great response. This guy is very gentlemanly and doesnt like humiliation or degradation. Hes a very attentive partner. By far the best sex I've ever had. He is obsessed with seeing his ejacutlate shoot. He wants to cum all over me. But when he says things like "you're going to stroke my cock and suck on my balls until I shoot my load all over that pretty cummable face of yours" i am down for it.

My boundaries are no scat/piss play. No ass play and no cum in my mouth. Also choking is off limits.
 

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Depends on the kink, depends on the relationship.

I am not down for humiliation or pain or bringing in other people. We can talk.

I can handle a moderate amount of pain if it is impact play that gives me a deep thuddy pain. I hate pain that stings.

Since I only see 2 guys for sex only. I don't want to know what they are doing when they arent with me. So I know I'd not like bringing another female into the bedroom. I'm a jealous bitch. That cock is mine mine mine.

Great answer btw
 

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Yeah, no.

Wanting to cum on a woman's face is porn fueled act meant to degrade. He might not realize it, but porn put the idea in his head.

My pussy and my jaw would snap shut at the words "cummable face"

Also. STIs in your eyes, nose, mouth. If he can't cum in you, he shouldn't cum near mucus membranes.
 

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I don't, actually. I thought a bit on this, and I've never agreed to do something with him that I didn't already have an interest in exploring myself.

We've discovered new kinks together, but neither of us has ever done anything just for the sake of pleasing the other.

I don't push him to do things he's not into, and he shows me the same respect. We both clearly know and understand each other's boundaries, and we don't ever attempt to cross them.

As for all the sex I've had outside my current relationship, fuck no. If I'm not into it it's not happening, period.
 

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He watches a lot if stuff that shows intense (not painful) ball play. He probably enjoys me jerking him off more than a blow job. He likes to see it come out. In these ball fetish videos they often cum while shes sucking his balls. The cum ends up on her face for it. Id be the one controlling it. It isn't something hes even done before. So I dont think he is approaching this from a humiliation stand point. He loves cumming inside of me and that's all hes done so far. The sex we've had hasn't included this yet. He never pushes the issue and loves to finish inside of me. He doesnt watch mainstream porn. He doesnt get into the bullshit. He truly cares about my pleasure. He lays back and let's me do whatever I want. He can repeat all of my boundaries back to me when asked. He is quite respectful. While in the past I thought of it as silly. I can look at it from a different perspective than I used to with the right partner.
 

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I never placed cumming on my face as a boundary. I've had it done once (by accident) and my husband did it once just to see what the hype was all about. We laughed hysterically and said what is the appeal of this? So I'm not breaking any of my rules for him. He persuaded me through sex talk in a way that makes me go "sure, what's the harm? He doesnt see it as degradation nor do I. That's just speaking for me and him. The guys who get off and will only cum on your face are not like my fwb. Turning him on more in turn makes me more turned on.

Like i get no pleasure from being tit fucked. But for the right person I'll do it and do it with enthusiasm. The looks on his face and the noises he makes makes it worth while for me to do it.
 

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I guess I'm the only one. And I sense snark and sass in the responses. Not what I need right now. So I'm just going to ask to have the thread deleted. I wasnt expecting everyone to think the way I do. I feel more humiliation from the responses in this thread than I would with a cum shot on my face with my consent.

I'm well aware of STIs. I'm not with a jerk. He doesnt push the issue. It would be his.first time. So he isn't so obsessed he insists on it. He hasn't. I'm simply enjoying his fantasy with him.
 

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Woah... I wasn't snarking. I was being completely honest for my own personal experiences.

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I wasnt feeling that vibe from you specifically. I figured we could separate the reason why porn does it versus why this guy likes the idea. He obliges me when I demand to be fucked even if he is enjoying the cock and ball play. He stops on the spot and says "how would you like me?" And I have no problem finding something he likes and doing it with joy for him. I see it as reciprocation
 

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For example, I have a hard boundary when it comes to assplay. At first he was like well I like to do it. And I said you will need to do that with someone else but once we fuck I promise you wont miss it. Hes never brought it up since. Nor has he tried to sneak it in during sex like some anal obsessed assholes.
 

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I wasnt feeling that vibe from you specifically. I figured we could separate the reason why porn does it versus why this guy likes the idea. He obliges me when I demand to be fucked even if he is enjoying the cock and ball play. He stops on the spot and says "how would you like me?" And I have no problem finding something he likes and doing it with joy for him. I see it as reciprocation

I think there was only one answer you were getting that vibe from, and it's one that I didn't see as snarky. My perspective is not from the same position as yours, but yeah.

You're exploring new relationships for the first time in a long time. Do you, and share your thoughts. We're going to share our too, though. I myself wouldn't be able to enter into a new sexual relationship within the year after breaking up with brownballs, and I know damn sure the next partner would not get to do nearly as much to me as he did.

We're all different. We can respect that. I appreciate your sharing these experiences with the community.
 
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It depends on what it is. Some things I can accept as someone else's kink, but find personally repugnant. Those are the ones I won't participate in.

Humiliation, bathroom related bodily functions, anything that seems sketchy as far as consent (like a lot of voyeur amateur videos), permanent harm, etc.

I did let someone pee while we were showering together, both of us standing up. That's the most I've allowed done for a kink I was flat out turned off about.

Beyond that, many things I might be willing to try, even if not my own kink.
 

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I think there was only one answer you were getting that vibe from, and it's one that I didn't see as snarky. My perspective is not from the same position as yours, but yeah.

You're exploring new relationships for the first time in a long time. Do you, and share your thoughts. We're going to share our too, though. I myself wouldn't be able to enter into a new sexual relationship within the year after breaking up with brownballs, but we're all different. We can respect that.

Well nothing else I was doing was helping me move on. Sometimes to get over someone you have to get under someone. My husband really turned into someone that was miserable to be around. Things haven't been good for a long while. But his heart left our relationship a couple of years ago. I'm trying to catch up to this reality and move on. I Express myself through sex and affection. He alienated me from that. I feel freedom and satisfaction having fwb. This is so me and the life I wished I would have had years ago. I have to move on. Its that or living in depression. I am not crying one more tear over him. I will always love him but we are both happy now and are happy for each other.
 

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Well nothing else I was doing was helping me move on. Sometimes to get over someone you have to get under someone. My husband really turned into someone that was miserable to be around. Things haven't been good for a long while. But his heart left our relationship a couple of years ago. I'm trying to catch up to this reality and move on. I Express myself through sex and affection. He alienated me from that. I feel freedom and satisfaction having fwb. This is so me and the life I wished I would have had years ago. I have to move on. Its that or living in depression. I am not crying one more tear over him. I will always love him but we are both happy now and are happy for each other.

You're doing what's right for you.

That's what needs to be done. So do it up.
 

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It depends on what it is. Some things I can accept as someone else's kink, but find personally repugnant. Those are the ones I won't participate in.

Humiliation, bathroom related bodily functions, anything that seems sketchy as far as consent (like a lot of voyeur amateur videos), permanent harm, etc.

I did let someone pee while we were showering together, both of us standing up. That's the most I've allowed done for a kink I was flat out turned off about.

My husband peed on me in the shower per my request because I'm a curious bitch always looking to try something new. It wasnt my jam at all.