...more specifically: do you use dental dams when the man goes down on the woman? I've seen plenty of porn with condoms, not any with a dental dam. Do you maintain safe sex practices until you both have tests? This might be a subject that some avoid, but I ask as a virgin who wants to do the right thing. Your answer might be that I shouldn't worry about what other people do, but your responses might help me deal with the issue when I first go down on a woman.