face or mouth?
i have never understood whats degrading about coming on someone's face...that would imply that my cum is "dirty"On face if I want to degrade and in mouth if I want a better feeling
It's the fact that's it bodily fluids on the person kinda like pissing on some one. Don't take it from a cum lover perspective. You are treating the person like an object, people cum on objects not people. That being said some girls like the idea of being degraded so being degraded isn't necessarily a negative thing.i have never understood whats degrading about coming on someone's face...that would imply that my cum is "dirty"
This issue of degradation makes a number of assumptions.It's the fact that's it bodily fluids on the person kinda like pissing on some one. Don't take it from a cum lover perspective. You are treating the person like an object, people cum on objects not people. That being said some girls like the idea of being degraded so being degraded isn't necessarily a negative thing.
You misunderstand what I'm saying, I was simply answering sodominsane question on why facials can/are (sometimes) viewed as being degrading. Part of BDSM is degradation play it does not mean you view the person lower or actually loath them it's just things that would be viewed as being degratory turns there person on like objectification and spitting. When done properly the sub knows that the DOM/ Master really does not loath them it's "play". In all fetish BDSM consent and respect is key so I'm not saying people who like getting or giving facials are lower or are automatically degrading another. If that is what you got I am sorry for the misunderstanding. The thing with facial and stuff like that have somewhat become apart of mainstream porn so it has less to do with it's roots from BDSM. I'm not passing judgment just giving the thinking behind itThis issue of degradation makes a number of assumptions.
"People cum on objects not people" Guys cum anywhere and everywhere. How is cumming *on* someone any less an objectification...again, assuming objectification exists at all...than cumming inside their mouth?
Why is there any assumption of degradation at all? That behavior is a specific fetish, and if both parties are into it, great. But there should never be an assumption that any sharing of bodies and their fluids is intended to be degrading? My wife loves when I cum anywhere on her...except her eyes, because that shit burns...and I love when she squirts....anywhere on me. Neither of us are into degrading behavior at all, on any level.