Sorcerer said:
...slutty or demure?
I personally like my men clean cut, cute, a little nerdy and on the shy side. I like women to be foul-mouthed sluts who dress like hookers.
I like my men and women to be the same.
I prefer clean, cute, obviously intelligent and witty, sharp classic dressers (the men can have a few stray chest hairs peeking above the crewneck of their t-shirt -- the women, NO, please!) you could take home to have a polite conversation with Mom. The friendly roommate type to whom you wouldn't mind loaning your car.
In the bedroom, or wherever or whenever you get any of their clothes unbuttoned, unzipped, or off, they DO in fact turn into sexy sluts.
That's the way I like it.