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Do You Prefere To Fuck Passive Or Active Bottoms

Discussion in 'Ask a Gay Man' started by deine_huendin, Jul 15, 2019.

  1. deine_huendin

    deine_huendin Well-Known Member

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    what is for you, as a 100% top the great experience, the bigger fun,
    the better satisfaction:
    fucking a passive, subordinate, obedience, well behaving, submissive bottom
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    fucking an active "power-" bottom, with "equal rights", at the same eye level... ???
     
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    How exactly is the passive/active duality supposed to be equivalent to the servile/assertive duality??
     
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    It depends on the situation. I've had encounters where I just wanted the bottom to be a hole for me. I just wanted to use him to get off. Other times I want the bottom to take an active role and tell me what he wants, and how he wants it.
     
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    I don’t know where I fall as a bottom, because I’m a tell you what I like but I also want you to take the lead. Like I’ll do whatever you want unless I tell you I’m not doing that.
     
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    as a top guy i like any guy i'm having sex with to be 'part' of the action with me, definitely not just lay there and take it, but to tell/show me what he's enjoying, what he likes, if he wants it harder, faster, slower etc.

    Nothing worse, for me, if a guy doesn't involve himself in the action. Which is not the same as me taking the lead and encouraging what we get up to.
     
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    Engaged Bottoms that speak up, are much more fun than passive partners.

    Do more than just exist in front of me. Participate and make it enjoyable.
     
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    Active bottoms. But I don't think this is an impediment to submissiveness in any way
     
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    Fun fact: in portuguese, we call tops "ativos" and bottoms "passivos"
     
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    Actively submissive? Is that thing? If so, then that one!

    Seriously, I don't want to fuck a bag. But I certainly don't care for a guy that tries to slam his ass up and down like he's playing whack-a-mole with my dick, like "power bottoms" do in porn. That's how guys get their dicks broken.

    Doesn't any top want his bottom to be into it? That means being an active participant, hopefully enthusiastic, and take it like a champ!!
     
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    Never tried the bottom role, but would love to. I would see myself as submissive, but active.

    I like the way girls bounce up and down cowgirl style. They run their hands through their hair and get off.

    I would like to try that with a guy. Just totally bounce up and down while running my hands through my hair. I would like to be moaning and groaning while he checks out my nude body.

    Basically playing the part of a girl.
     
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    I totally get this, plenty of times I just want to be a hole for a top so he. And shove his cock in and get off and do his thing! Not really passive that I just don’t nothing,but I really get into being his body to use. Love it. And when Im active I still like beimg a hole for a man, I want to pleasure him, I just don’t lay there and I’m active and doing all I can to make it a hot time. Both ways are so hot to me!
     
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    if i meet a guy and take the active role which i have his cock is in me but im doing the fucking. I normally like to finish riding them and i make sure when i cum i shoot it on their face to finish the dominate bottom role ;)
     
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    I love threads like this. I love getting insight into what tops like, since I’ve never been one never had a desire to be one.

    Oh and you can count me in the “actively submissive” camp. There is nothing I enjoy more than giving my hole up to be used by a guy who needs to get off. But it’s impossible for me not to be vocal, let him know how good his cock feels in me, to fuck me like he owns my hole, etc. And I really truly enjoy milking a guys cock with my hole when he’s ready to unload.

    But I don’t do the power bottom moves - I am there to be fucked, not do the fucking.
     
  14. deine_huendin

    deine_huendin Well-Known Member

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    great- thats the point:
    I am there to be fucked, not do the fucking
    i am there to serve, not to be satisfied myself.
    I'm not lying there like a dead board - but i like to push my hips towards him,
    doing everything to to allow him a comfortable, deep access...
    moaning, lamenting, yammering
    but also begging not to stop
     
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