Do you put out on your first date?

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  1. luka82

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    Well, do you? :wink:
     
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    It depends on how nice he is and how horny I am at the time... :)
     
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    nope.
     
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    Date me and find out!
     
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    I did if she was willing.

    what was surprising was how many times during the "good nite" kiss at the end of the first date my cock was fondled. a few said they were determining whether a second date was going to happen, and a few instantly changed their minds and needed fucking ASAP.
     
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    Just once
     
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    I'm intrigued since I was raised with the good girls don't rules. Those women who were, uh, checking out the merchandise, did that keep you or make you more interested in them?
     
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    My wife fucked me on our first date. In fact within a few minutes of us kissing she was taking my dick out of my pants.

    Made me feel like she was being more "real" with her needs/desires then all the women who want to fuck but hold themselves back due to societal pressures or the belief that I won't respect them as much. Actually it was the opposite, I respected my wife for being real. We fucked 3 times that night on our first date, oral sex, 69, everything. Best first date ever
     
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    Usually.
     
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    Cheese and crackers and a few chocolate cookies can make that first get together a little less tense. Once I put out a tray of sardines, it didn't go well.
     
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    Not unless your courting a cat!!
     
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    Every guys, or every guy you pick, dream date. Heh.
     
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    My wife and I fooled around, some boobeh and kissing but no go. The next date however I got a bj, which for me sealed it. Never had better. Ever. Besides all the chemistry that was like a shot in the head.
     
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    i do not understand the desire to shag before you know them. it makes no sense at all to me.
     
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    I do it, sometimes!
    But the thing is I feel like shit after! But then, I repeat it! :biggrin1:
     
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    For me, part of how far I go depends on where I've met my date. If it's a strictly vanilla meeting/setup, I don't even entertain the idea. However, if she's a member of my local kink community and/or someone I've met through an "alternative" web site, then I'll at least think about messing around a little, but usually not sex.
     
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    My experience too, especially if it was a "date" with someone I'd been casual friends with for a while. And since kissing will give me an erection every time, if they were willing, I was, too!
     
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    I don't understand the desire to spend a lot of time getting to know someone before you fuck them. It makes no sense to me at all.

    Doesn't make me right and you wrong, or vice versa, just makes you & I very incompatible. And the world is big enough that it makes sense to find the right match

    My wife put it very well once, and I agree: "why would I want to invest all that time and effort in building an emotional bond with someone, even possibly risk loving them, only to find out that that they aren't very hot in bed? That would suck..."
     
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