Do you put out on your first date?
Why bother with a "date"?:biggrin1:
But, seriously, folks, it all depends on the chemistry and the situation. Some guys are great "friend" material, and I have to weigh the risks of losing a friend vs. gaining a lover (did I say that right?). Some guys spring unusual requests, i.e., kinky sex, threesomes, etc., that I may not feel comfortable with on a first date.
One guy seemed particularly inexperienced, and we wound up dating three times before "putting out". This turned into a seven-year relationship.:smile:
Others seemed too selfish as the date continued, or just not compatible in some ways (I'm a little choosy, even as a beggar).