Do you shave for yourself or for your partner?

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  1. Hoss

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    When it comes to shaving body parts....legs, underarms, vagina.... do you shave them because you want to or because your partner wants you to and do they help you shave or just ask for it and then take it as an added benefit?
     
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    my gf did it for me. i shaved for her, but she didnt ask for me to shave.
     
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    I have shaved my hubbys face on occasion,its fun. Arm pits I do myself if shaving them at all . Other bits not shaved.
     
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    I got my wife to start shaving her vagina years ago. Her pubic hair was very coarse and curly that made my mouth raw when I gave her oral. Now, every thing is good. Her pussy is bald and I shave my cock and balls so she can suck them as well.
     
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    Opposite here. My girlfriend used to shave before we started dating, but stopped when she found out I prefer the natural look.
     
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    Funny how almost only guys answer a question in women's issues. This thread might as well be moved to appearance issues then.
    And to answer the OP: I have started shaving almost as soon as I started growing pubic hair. So way before any potential boyfriend. You could say I only shave for myself, and if a guy would prefer the natural look and expect me to stop shaving, I wouldn't.
    And no, I haven't tried shaving with a partner (yet), but it sure sounds fun and like something I'd like to try some day!
     
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    It's not exactly the type of question for which men would have no insight. The OP didn't ask how it feels for a woman when she orgasms or how it feels for a woman when guys catcall her.

    And yes, in that respect, appearance issues forum would've been fine as well :p
     
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    Must be for myself, because I shave and don't have a partner!
     
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    I shave for me...everything :)
     
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    I shave my underarms and legs for myself. Even though I could go 3 or 4 days without shaving before it looks like I need to shave, but it's difficult for me to skip a day. It feels terrible.

    In our house shaving is a personal thing. I've only helped him shave the back of his neck. He's never come close to me with a blade, and unless I'm incapacitated somehow he never will!
     
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    I shave cause I like the soft feeling, men don't complain either ;)
     
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    Myself. I mix up the pubic region depending on my mood. Armpits and legs are shaved as often as needed.
     
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    I have shaved a few GFs pubic hair. I found it incredibly erotic, a massive turn on and it always inspired impassioned oral.
     
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    I'm in the tropics: all limbs are exposed, all the time, so I shave my underarms and legs. I do my bikini because I prefer the feeling. I get hot & itchy if it grows out.

    That said, I'm fundamentally lazy and stretch out the intervals as long as possible.
     
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    I shave my arms and legs, it became habit from playing sports. I trim down the pubic region to a small triangle-like area. Otherwise I'm pretty naturally hairless. Most females seem to appreciate this... although some prefer the man beast of yore.
     
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    I prefer a very neat V on the mons and smooth everywhere else.

    Sure, I've enjoyed a little erotic mutual grooming as a form of foreplay.

    Stretching out on a towel and handing him the can of shaving cream and a new razor and a basin of hot water and allowing him to shave me bare.

    Oral is always takes on an added intensity and the sex tends to be off the hook...

    BUT...

    The shave rash and the unbearable, excruciating itch for days after the fact isn't I like to subject myself to very often.
     
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    Bingo, and same when they shaved me. Talk about a win-win!
     
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    I shave everything, and I do it for myself. However, I've recently found myself in a relationship with someone who prefers a trimmed look... now I have to decide whether I shave for me, or trim for him...
     
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    I feel ya, Dragon. I have really thick, fast-growing hair, so much so that I'm scared to wax my bikini - the few times I've tried has ended in bleeding and scary amounts of lymphoma.

    I shave, but it requires a fairly diligent exfoliation & moisturisation routine. There's a day or so of irritation, but it's remarkably short-lived, compared to previous experiences. Frequency of shaving might be a key too.
     
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    so why do you do it ?
     
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