This is an honest-to-god, non-judgemental question!
I know I haven't been around for yonks but would value opinions on this from both sides please and I am positive that there's a good mix of each on this lovely forum. :wink:
If you see 2 people arguing or disagreeing with each other or one person not happy with the other and a bit nasty (or damn right aggressive) or one just having a go at the other, what do you do? or what would you like to do? Why? What makes you do what you do? (whether it be intervene or do nothing)
For those that don't intervene: why do you not intervene? Is it because you don't want to get involved or don't want the aggressive one to turn on you or is it cos it's none of your business? Or is there a different reason?
Is it that you just want peace and want them both to just cut it out?
For those who do intervene: why do you intervene? Is it for sport or because you feel one is being bullied? Is it to protect or is it cos it's a friend?
I've got myself into weird situations over the years and again recently and am just being reflective as to what happens and why? Of course I can only reflect on my own reasons and feelings and would appreciate understanding others perspectives.
So please, share yours?
Ta x
I know I haven't been around for yonks but would value opinions on this from both sides please and I am positive that there's a good mix of each on this lovely forum. :wink:
If you see 2 people arguing or disagreeing with each other or one person not happy with the other and a bit nasty (or damn right aggressive) or one just having a go at the other, what do you do? or what would you like to do? Why? What makes you do what you do? (whether it be intervene or do nothing)
For those that don't intervene: why do you not intervene? Is it because you don't want to get involved or don't want the aggressive one to turn on you or is it cos it's none of your business? Or is there a different reason?
Is it that you just want peace and want them both to just cut it out?
For those who do intervene: why do you intervene? Is it for sport or because you feel one is being bullied? Is it to protect or is it cos it's a friend?
I've got myself into weird situations over the years and again recently and am just being reflective as to what happens and why? Of course I can only reflect on my own reasons and feelings and would appreciate understanding others perspectives.
So please, share yours?
Ta x