Do you stay hard during foreplay?

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i find that i get hard at the start when we're kissing, playing with toys, eating her out etc. but i don't stay hard all the way through and by the time it's time for me to get my 'turn' (blowjob) i'm not fully erect and sometimes flaccid. i started to wonder if a woman would feel 'offended' that i wasn't hard when she was ready to pleasure me (maybe thinking i wasn't into it) or is it normal for dudes to lose their erection during (i guess since their penis isn't being stimulated and foreplay can take a while)

NB: i thoroughly enjoy foreplay and pleasuring the women orally so it is not about me not being into it.
 

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I think it's normal espically when your into her pleasure. I'm enjoying her moans and her body movements more than anything, not thinking about me cumming, just her. So my cock is semi for the most, sometimes soft, but doesn't take much when I know she wants me inside her.
 

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I think if you are really concentrating on her pleasure, it is quite normal for your hard on to subside. I wouldn't worry about it...as long as there is no problem getting sufficiently hard when called upon.
 

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Sometimes I'm soft when I'm eating my girl out too.. But eventually I bone up.. Usually if I dig right in and go at it I'm soft but once I'm down there and I slow down a bit and start licking her real slow and and intense ill bone up or if I slide my fingers in too an she's real wet I'll get hard then. Try that bro.. Or 69 ;)
 

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Sometimes when my girls on top for a while and she's riding me in a certain way where I don't get to much up and down movement on my cock I start goin soft.. It sucks.. Any suggestions on that? Haha.. Personally I think it's got somethin to do with the fact she can only get off 95% of the time when she's doing that certain rhythm on top of me.. And it just doesn't feel as good for me.. Plus I'm working so hard to get her orgasm..
 
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As I have gotten older it is more of the norm. Once it's my turn or we 69 it's no longer an issue. I wouldn't worry about it.
 

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I think it's normal espically when your into her pleasure. I'm enjoying her moans and her body movements more than anything, not thinking about me cumming, just her. So my cock is semi for the most, sometimes soft, but doesn't take much when I know she wants me inside her.

I think if you are really concentrating on her pleasure, it is quite normal for your hard on to subside. I wouldn't worry about it...as long as there is no problem getting sufficiently hard when called upon.

I agree. When I'm concentrating on giving a woman an orgasm with my mouth or fingers (or both), her pleasure is most important at that time, so I'm usually not raging hard at the time.

As I have gotten older it is more of the norm. Once it's my turn or we 69 it's no longer an issue. I wouldn't worry about it.

Same here. In my younger days, I'd stay hard while going down on a woman. If I wasn't 100% hard, her explosive orgasm would be enough to make me hard and ready to go.

It's no big deal, that's was foreplay is for (or her giving me a bj!)
 

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This is me. The SECOND I start kissing or eating pussy I'm rock hard. But because I like to eat pussy for extended periods of time my erection subsides. I told myself it's because it's not being stimulated while I'm stimulating her. I truly believe this is the reason since once I'm ready and I get it hard again I'm hard until I either quit or cum.

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This is me. The SECOND I start kissing or eating pussy I'm rock hard. But because I like to eat pussy for extended periods of time my erection subsides. I told myself it's because it's not being stimulated while I'm stimulating her. I truly believe this is the reason since once I'm ready and I get it hard again I'm hard until I either quit or cum.

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I think in your case it's probably some sort of built in biological safety mechanism on the part of the creator.

Given how much you appear to enjoy consuming vagina and the immense size of your cock; if you maintained an erection the whole time while your were indulging in oral you would probably pass out from loss of blood and probably meet your mortal end much too soon.
 

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I think in your case it's probably some sort of built in biological safety mechanism on the part of the creator.

Given how much you appear to enjoy consuming vagina and the immense size of your cock; if you maintained an erection the whole time while your were indulging in oral you would probably pass out from loss of blood and probably meet your mortal end much too soon.

LOL!
 

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I think in your case it's probably some sort of built in biological safety mechanism on the part of the creator.

Given how much you appear to enjoy consuming vagina and the immense size of your cock; if you maintained an erection the whole time while your were indulging in oral you would probably pass out from loss of blood and probably meet your mortal end much too soon.

Okay...THIS is funny! LOL!


Simba
 

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Depends of what activity is considered foreplay. but I would say 1/4 woodie is typical if we are both fully dressed and fooling around, 1/2 woodie if there is manual stimulation to private areas giving or receiving; and full woodie if you consider oral Foreplay