i find that i get hard at the start when we're kissing, playing with toys, eating her out etc. but i don't stay hard all the way through and by the time it's time for me to get my 'turn' (blowjob) i'm not fully erect and sometimes flaccid. i started to wonder if a woman would feel 'offended' that i wasn't hard when she was ready to pleasure me (maybe thinking i wasn't into it) or is it normal for dudes to lose their erection during (i guess since their penis isn't being stimulated and foreplay can take a while)
NB: i thoroughly enjoy foreplay and pleasuring the women orally so it is not about me not being into it.
NB: i thoroughly enjoy foreplay and pleasuring the women orally so it is not about me not being into it.