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Every guy I've ever known has and still does jerk off even in a relationship. My one buddy does it even more so because his fiance' is pregnant
 

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Yes, sure did when in a relationship .. (does a Gay r/l make a difference? haha)
anyway mate was much Worse, caught him sooo many times, gave up and accepted that he needed it, and i was able to have some peace....


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Every guy I've ever known has and still does jerk off even in a relationship. My one buddy does it even more so because his fiance' is pregnant

YES, agreed
just re-thinking on that, and this thread topic.
it seems some folk are 'real hot' re CHEATING, per se
therefore, is it..
an open relationship... frowned on, by some
or cheating... frowned on, by some
if the partner, knows of our extra masturbatory activities, and just casually turns a blind eye, or does it him / herself,in private
i.e. secretly, as well

i would surmise, we are pretty much a whole world, of silent cheaters.....
taking that cheater option, as compared to proclaiming were living in an open relationship..
 

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I do enjoy an pleasurable, fulfilling, and frequent sex life. I do still masturbate on a regular basis. Even though the two offer me the same end result, I find the pleasure derived from both to be uniquely different in their own way.. I find that sometimes I just need to get off right away and don't want to wait for a sexual situation to present itself.
 

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Yes, sure did when in a relationship .. (does a Gay r/l make a difference? haha)
anyway mate was much Worse, caught him sooo many times, gave up and accepted that he needed it, and i was able to have some peace....


Mr_Bulldog
Every guy I've ever known has and still does jerk off even in a relationship. My one buddy does it even more so because his fiance' is pregnant

YES, agreed
just re-thinking on that, and this thread topic.
it seems some folk are 'real hot' re CHEATING, per se
therefore, is it..
an open relationship... frowned on, by some
or cheating... frowned on, by some
if the partner, knows of our extra masturbatory activities, and just casually turns a blind eye, or does it him / herself,in private
i.e. secretly, as well

i would surmise, we are pretty much a whole world, of silent cheaters.....
taking that cheater option, as compared to proclaiming were living in an open relationship..

It's my opinion that cheating requires some intimacy with a person who is NOT your partner. Masturbation does not satisfy the "other person" test. Thus I could not say it is cheating, at all.
 

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To answer the question, of course I still j/o now and then. Who doesn't? Feels much better of course if someone else is doing it for me but I don't consider it cheating...how does one cheat on himself?
 

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Ex wife and I would sometimes masturbate together, if she was in the mood. If not, she would just whisper nasty words in my ear until I spewed on her titties.
 

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I would guess 99% of ppl do it , the 1% would be priest / nuns , disabled people without hands etc. Do you get people that don't have sex at all ?
 

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Lol yes cos my bf works out of town and i only get to see him on weekends. When we see eachother we talk about it tho and ask eachother what porn we watched during the week and what day/s we masturbated haha. I think it's perfectly normal. As long as he's not getting it from another girl, doesn't bother me at all lol.
 

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I would guess 99% of ppl do it , the 1% would be priest / nuns , disabled people without hands etc. Do you get people that don't have sex at all ?

Priests and nuns would defs do it! Don't get me started on talking about priests (not all of them are the same tho obviously).

Disabled people would probably get escorts.

I think people that don't have sex seriously don't know what they're missing out on. Or they have sex, but just lie about about it.
 

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I'm curious if people would still masturbate alone if they could have some sort of sexual contact with their significant other whenever they wanted to. It seems some say that still masturbate alone because they enjoy it while some others say they just need to get off quickly.

My biggest thing is that I don't want to masturbate and then end with with my boyfriend a few hours later. Sort of takes the fun out of the ending.
 

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Disabled people would probably get escorts.

Humans are very resouceful
Worked in a Psychiatric Hospital for 8 months or so, several guys (mid 20s) one totally blind, got themselves off very well, several times daily, when i was on shift..i turned .away and left them to it, unlike a bitch of a nurse, who attempted to stop them every time.
We are talking severely disabled (some doubtful re that, assholes locked up anyone in those days)



My biggest thing is that I don't want to masturbate and then end with with my boyfriend a few hours later. Sort of takes the fun out of the ending.

Just on that matey, after we worked out my partners needs were far greater than mine,we almost had what was an ideal situation for us, i would happily ' finish him off' after he had had, a marathon solo jo session
i.e.
'come and finish me off' was .the cry...etc, was wonderful, as it satisfied both our needs perfectly
 

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Of course! But frequency differs. It depends. Sometimes my GF and I have sex every day or even 2 or 3 times a day. Sometimes we don't do it for a couple of days, than I masturbate more often. We both have a very high libido so I know it's the same for her. We do talk about it, which is fun.
 

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When she is on her period, or has a headache, I do it. While bleeding, she is so nervous that she never allows me to get near her.
 

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Disabled people would probably get escorts.
In our country getting escorts/sex workers are illegal did not know that in the USA you can get Escorts legally.

I like masturbating into a condom i am bit of a neat freak so don't like dealing with the cum. Anyone else like using a condom too? I see lots of people like shooting on their body [yuk]