Do you still masturbate while in relationship/married

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Disabled people would probably get escorts.

Cheers Op i am from New Zealand, the person who posted the above is from Australia i think
It was her mention, not mine
I never use the lpsg quotes thing so the confusion i geuss

I DONT know whats legal in the USA, in NZ regarding escorts i think its legal, never used em?
 

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I am in a committed relationship now, and I feel bad about masturbating. I feel like shit afterwards. I don't want to feel like I need it, I need to be in control.
 

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I have a friend who considers it cheating if his boyfriend jerks off. Sometimes you just want to get off. You don't need to share it with anyone else. It's just a personal relief thing, like relaxing in a hot bath. Not quite the same as cheating.

My ex considered it a form of cheating; I never understood that and therefore never respected it.

JO is not sex: it's JO. There is no cheating whatsoever; it's entirely natural...period.

ETA: his objections to my JO were an attempt to control me beyond what was considered consensual on my part. It was a major problem in our relationship.
 
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jacking is important for your health.

a jack a day keeps prostate cancer at bay!
if your other half is willing to get you off once or twice every day then that's great.
if not, what would they prefer... you wanking alone or you getting cancer?

for women it keeps the pelvic muscles in good condition.

wanking. it's all good.
 

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As Dolfette put so eloquently, "Wanking. It's all good".

I'm not going to deny myself 'me time' for anyone. I have a very high sex drive and so sometimes it's the best option available.