just wondering, with a bit curious... 1. male bonding, what is it? does a real str8 guy do this? (i mean a straight man who fucks only female or his sex interest only on the female, like some girls told me the 'pussies face'!!) <i asked as i was told that it was only touching each other's cocks, maybe for comparing or jerking, for further fantacies, kissing, absolutely no fucking!!> 2. jerking with stranger, i felt that it's a bit gay if not a close friend, or i maybe wrong?! and at my age, i think it's not the age of doing this? or my thought is too old for this era? i admitted that i did it with my close friends when i was younger, and not that frequent, only we were too nasty!! hehe.. can i be sure that the one(s) who proposed this to me is gay or bi? i asked this to some gay friends, they just told me that those are surely gay, if you don't wanna go for it, just turn it down politely.. i did that all the time i was proposed!! please help expand my horizon on today's men relationship... should i open up for this? for 1., i was proposed by a really good customer, who now became a long time friend, we hang out together (with some of his/my friends), from working out to checking some hot chicks or so... (had a group sex with him once, i mean we 2 men with 2 girls in the same room)... however, i still feel that he is not a close friend and why he keep proposing me this.. and he's now pushing me a lot everytime we meet.. and i think i wanna keep the good relationship without that kinda bonding, just like the way it is currently, not sure what he is thinking now. i've turned it down at least 4-5 times as much as i could remember. for 2., it doesn't matter as it was a stranger though!! thanks in advance.