Do you talk about your sex life with anyone?

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I try fairly hard not to divulge identifying information about my playmates even if I'm being rather explicit.

Some I know wouldn't care if I employed a sky writer or shouted it from the roof tops and yet others are intensely private individuals who would see it as a breach of trust to mention our time together even in the most obscure terms.

It probably best to use a little discretion until you get their permission to publicly share to a greater degree.
 

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Yes with a very select few friends who have been vetted for confidentiality over the course of decades, and a little here under the guise of anonymity.

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Only on LPSG.org. I've never discussed it with friends. They have discussed theirs with me, but I don't reciprocate. Even my wife was more open with me than I was with her. Mostly because I've had pathetically little experience and I'm embarrassed about it.
 

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It's all memories for me now *cue sad violin playing* so yes, online I do.

IRL, it's pretty well known that I'm not getting any penetration. It's also pretty well known that should that unlikely event begin to occur, everyone will know it. It will be on Facebook, group emails, community newsletters, and the possible use of a megaphone and slow moving convertible through town. :biggrin1:
 

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La Femme and I get together every second Sunday in Thunder Bay and talk sex for hours. We watch the waves roll in off Lake Superior and drink mojitos; I muddle the mint myself.

I'm totally lying, but it sounds like a good time to me.

In actual fact, I talk with many people about their sex lives, but rarely about mine.
 

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Yeah, I think it's kinda shitty to talk behind the back of your sex partner, his appendage, what you do in bed, how good or bad he is sexually without his consent or knowing, bragging or not. Just my feeling.

I guess I'm just a prude but I don't think any of that knowledge or the details need to leave the bedroom. I don't know what my close friends do in their bedrooms nor do I want to know, nor do I ever ask. Hell, I barely even speak about sex with my partners as most of it is non verbal communication anyways. lol.
 

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La Femme and I get together every second Sunday in Thunder Bay and talk sex for hours. We watch the waves roll in off Lake Superior and drink mojitos; I muddle the mint myself.

I'm totally lying, but it sounds like a good time to me.

In actual fact, I talk with many people about their sex lives, but rarely about mine.

We should totally do that! Next time I come out East! I'll regale you with stories of the "old" days! :tongue:
 

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We should totally do that! Next time I come out East! I'll regale you with stories of the "old" days! :tongue:

Well, if we're reminiscing I would suggest hot chocolate by a roaring fire instead of mojitos. We could chat for hours in a log cabin by some remote lake in northern Quebec, and then canoe out to the water-smoothed island in the middle - a swirly-striped bubble of Canadian Shield; we can stare up at the aurora borealis with it, as it has on so many late spring nights for the past two and half billion years. We'll lash our canoe to the lone jack pine that clings to the rock, its roots nestled in the strata that the water and ice have sanded away, and listen to the water while the fireflies dance under the red oaks and the bullfrogs call from the reeds.
 
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Well, if we're reminiscing I would suggest hot chocolate by a roaring fire instead of mojitos. We could chat for hours in a log cabin by some remote lake in northern Quebec, and then canoe out to the water-smoothed island in the middle - a swirly-striped bubble of Canadian Shield; we can stare up at the aurora borealis with it, as it has on so many late spring nights for the past two and half billion years. We'll lash our canoe to the lone jack pine that clings to the rock, its roots nestled in the strata that the water and ice have sanded away, and listen to the water while the fireflies dance under the red oaks and the bullfrogs call from the reeds.

You can sure tell we love our country. I love my prairies and my mountains - the sound of water, the smell of pine, unbroken horizons and fields and fields of wheat or canola, alfalfa and hay. Cattle and horses; being 10 minutes out of the city and stumbling out to the deck with a cup of coffee in the morning and having a herd of deer in your yard.

I love this place.
 

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You can sure tell we love our country. I love my prairies and my mountains - the sound of water, the smell of pine, unbroken horizons and fields and fields of wheat or canola, alfalfa and hay. Cattle and horses; being 10 minutes out of the city and stumbling out to the deck with a cup of coffee in the morning and having a herd of deer in your yard.

I love this place.

Hhahaha when you say "herd of deer in your yard" all I can think of is a venison roast with peppercorn crust.
 

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I'm a very open individual and I have no problems speaking about my sex life or hearing about others'. I do, however, try to respect peoples' privacy; I also don't just have my sex life out as an open book-- if it comes up, I don't mind the topic.

I have a few very close friends, and we typically tend to share everything. Outside of them, when able, I try to protect the innocent and abstract stories of anyone that may likely come into contact with whoever I may be speaking with. That said, I've been fortunate enough to be one of the designated "persons to talk to" for most of my friends and most people trust me for my confidentiality-- I tend to know a lot about the sex lives of the people around me, whether it's for sexual advice purposes or simply sharing experiences.

I believe that details of my sex life have been shared on my behalf, and I really don't mind that too much. In fact, I think it's kind of cool. What I do have a problem with is when people communicate things about their sex life that they haven't shared with their significant other, if applicable. I've had my fair share of girls complaining to me about sexual matters that they've never brought up with their boyfriends. I would feel very betrayed if a girl was confiding discontent to others that I was unaware of, and while I"m happy to help in what ways I can, I try to redirect inappropriate conversations like that to where they need to happen. Trust & communication are big for me.

At the end of the day, I guess I'd say I think "sex", nudity, and the likes are ... made to be a bigger deal than I'd like them to be in my life. Don't get me wrong, I respect the value of intimacy and the fact that certain things are nobody's business, but I wish that seeing someone's tits or realizing that someone is having sex didn't need to be such a huge "OMG!!" I'm not saying everyone should go out and be whores, but I wish sex & nudity were more of a "natural" thing that didn't have as much of a hype. I think that I have a closer relationship with people with whom we share sexual details, if only because we know things about each other that many others don't.
 

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You can sure tell we love our country. I love my prairies and my mountains - the sound of water, the smell of pine, unbroken horizons and fields and fields of wheat or canola, alfalfa and hay. Cattle and horses; being 10 minutes out of the city and stumbling out to the deck with a cup of coffee in the morning and having a herd of deer in your yard.

I love this place.

Every year I forget how incredibly yellow canola gets, and how happy it makes me to see a field of it.
 

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It's all memories for me now *cue sad violin playing* so yes, online I do.

IRL, it's pretty well known that I'm not getting any penetration. It's also pretty well known that should that unlikely event begin to occur, everyone will know it. It will be on Facebook, group emails, community newsletters, and the possible use of a megaphone and slow moving convertible through town. :biggrin1:

lafemme, there are way too many guys in western canada missing out!

i talk about my sex life with buddies but in very limited detail....a few yes or no questions are answered to shut them up, and thats it