Do you talk about your sex life with anyone?

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lafemme, there are way too many guys in western canada missing out!

Aw, thanks snoolaz! Certainly someone would be missing out! But since I'm not into the casual anymore, I'm prepared to wait. Eventually some guy is going wander into my bed, and I hope he's prepared to stay there a loooong time! :biggrin1:
 

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I really prefer not too outside of these forums

It is what it is. I'm fairly certain a few of them wouldn't do anything, thing is I just don't know for sure. Some of them don't have the skills to even pull a maneuver like that and it would take my boyfriend making the first move. They're fun to be around so they remain in my circle. Could be a case of who I am as I don't really trust too many people in general, especially some of them who have the sexual habits of an alley cat. If you've been in a college environment you know what I'm talking about (not to say you don't). I may be libidinous in regards to being here, and what brought me here, but I'm not someone who sleeps around or cheats. Some of these women (and men) who've found their way into my orbit are just sex crazed and jump from one bed to another. I go to school in an area that has something like 10 colleges within a 20 mile radius and it's a carnal playground filled with individuals who think nothing of hooking up with someone they met a few hours before. When I lived in the dorms there were girls on my floor who had 3-4 different sexual partners a week. That's something I can't do. Takes me a while to get to the point of wanting to be with someone. All this sleeping around by the students around me (some anyways) has registers and although I'm accepting in what they choose to do I'm rightly cautious to their character and just don't think it's a good idea to talk about my guy with any of them. It's just nobody's business. So instead I choose to express myself in a sexual way here, anonymously.
 

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I'm fairly open to talking about my sex life but sometimes I need to remember that it's also the sex life of another person, who may not wish to have strangers know about her sexual habits.
My ex told her friends about my size, and although that was an ego boost, it made me self conscious to think about other things she may have shared with people I don't know very well. It's fun to talk about things but it's all about finding people who won't repeat comments
 

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Yeah, a few of my closest/best friends and I are rather open about our sex lives.
 

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I will talk about my sex life a bit with close guy friends, but not too much in detail. I have probably disclosed more info responding to posts on this site than actually speaking to people...
 

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I talk to my boys about about my sex life but not like graphic detaillike if it was some one I was in a serious relationship with
 

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I'm almost 60, married 33 yrs, and I don't really talk about my sex life, I just state that I don't have one any more. and that't that. SO says we are too old, she has some health issues, no interest in sex, and doesn't really give a shit on how I feel or what I need or want.

and that's the most of said about that in quite awhile.
 

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^This who/what I meant to quote and respond to in my last post and not mako shark. ... kids, drugs are bad mmmkay.
Lmao -- I eventually figured it out, but I spent a good 60 seconds trying to figure out what the hell your reply had to do with the post you quoted!



I'm almost 60, married 33 yrs, and I don't really talk about my sex life, I just state that I don't have one any more. and that't that. SO says we are too old, she has some health issues, no interest in sex, and doesn't really give a shit on how I feel or what I need or want.

and that's the most of said about that in quite awhile.
Ouch :( I'm sorry to hear that. That's one of my biggest fears about growing up, although I don't know whether I'm scared of age or prolonged marriage. I really want to be happily married, with the picket fence and all that jazz, someday, but I do have to admit that on some level I'm afraid that inevitably the sex life will die. (I'm obviously not intending to state that sex is the most important aspect of a marriage or the only one I'm focused on, rather I'm just voicing a thought about marriage, as it pertains to sex.)
 

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like anything in my life..i don't advertise it....
but if you ask me about anything that is about me.i will tell you the truth.good or bad.it's the reason why i'm single now. i'm like Jim Carey in that movie Liar,Liar.
 

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I would never want to do so, unless it was done so anonymously. "Sex in the City" may be fun to watch, but I wouldn't want to live like that... Some things need to stay private...
 

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I'm fairly open to talking about my sex life but sometimes I need to remember that it's also the sex life of another person, who may not wish to have strangers know about her sexual habits. My ex told her friends about my size, and although that was an ego boost, it made me self conscious to think about other things she may have shared with people I don't know very well. It's fun to talk about things but it's all about finding people who won't repeat comments
That's a very admirable attitude to have toward it. I was on another forum talking about this recently, and the more I think about it, the more wrong it seems. A lot of people seem to think it's OK to disclose any details about male genitalia for some reason. Even if it's a compliment, it's a sign of bad character. If you're intimate with someone, I feel there's sort of an unwritten agreement that you're not going to go off later and blab all sorts of details about their naked body or body parts to people they didn't agree to get naked with. If you told them you were going to do that ahead of time, I'd imagine there are many who might zip back up and leave. Not to sound all "high and mighty", I screw up lots of shit and do things I'm not proud of. That sort of thing's just not in there, and that doesn't change once I stop going out with someone.

Crunch
 

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I'm not bashful, but not many if my friends are as communicative as me. For now it's pretty much the lady who waxes me. At first it was for technical reasons, then a few questions back & forth, to now where we pretty much talk the whole time about a lot of details.