Hi, I have a friend that I have been involved with sexually. He regularly comes over and likes to sleep next to me and cuddle at times, but mostly, it's me cuddling him. He's never spooned me - I'm the spooner, even though I'm very petite physically and he is very muscular. I give him head quite often because I get off on doing it and he enjoys it too, but he won't kiss me more than just a few pecks. He tells me he doesn't like tongue. I can understand if someone doesn't like to kiss after oral, but this us before. All the while I am giving him head, he's very very passive. From start to finish he just lies on his back and let's me do my thing. I love eye contact doing oral, and he will look down at me while I'm giving him head. I wonder though, if he could be gay? I am an attractive girl with a toned body but he doesn't actively show any signs if lust of attraction towards me. We have had sex once but I did all the 'work'. As in, he was aroused and after me giving him head for a bit, said "are you going to get on it now?" and just expected me to "get on it" and arouse and touch myself. I asked him to finger me or go down on me but he said 'no'. It seemed that he wasn't 'progressing', so to speak, then he took me from behind and that did the trick.