Do You Think I Am Bi Or Partially Bi?

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Hello, all. I would like your opinion on whether you think I am bi or at least partially and maybe see if any of you can relate.

I have been turned on by huge penises for as long as I can remember, but only on their own or when seen with a woman. When I look at porn of two men interacting, it's a turnoff for me. Please understand that this isn't any kind of moral judgement or any kind of choice on my part. It's just that when I see men kissing or having sex, it's a turnoff. That's just how my body responds, and it's not a judgement in any way. In fact, the logical part of my brain says, good for them, they look like they're having fun! But my body doesn't respond. However, when I see a huge penis with a woman or a guy jerking off, it's a huge turn-on. My fantasy is having that penis myself and using it to satisfy a woman or just enjoying it myself. So, on the one hand, I may be 100% straight since I don't have any man-on-man fantasies. On the other hand, how can I say I'm 100% straight if penises turn me on? lol What are your thoughts?

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Sounds to me like you are just +90% straight. I am a strong believer in sexuality is more of a spectrum. You are not they only guy that feels like that. As far as the kissing I have never liked MM kissing as well, not sure why I don't like it. Can't get into it in porn or the few times I have tried it (maybe they guys just sucked at it). I think it is a vary intimate act and maybe I am just not that into men.
Find yourself a mmf threesome my wife I enjoy them (the other guy must be big for us as well).
Just my thoughts on it.
 

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Hello, all. I would like your opinion on whether you think I am bi or at least partially and maybe see if any of you can relate.

I have been turned on by huge penises for as long as I can remember, but only on their own or when seen with a woman. When I look at porn of two men interacting, it's a turnoff for me. Please understand that this isn't any kind of moral judgement or any kind of choice on my part. It's just that when I see men kissing or having sex, it's a turnoff. That's just how my body responds, and it's not a judgement in any way. In fact, the logical part of my brain says, good for them, they look like they're having fun! But my body doesn't respond. However, when I see a huge penis with a woman or a guy jerking off, it's a huge turn-on. My fantasy is having that penis myself and using it to satisfy a woman or just enjoying it myself. So, on the one hand, I may be 100% straight since I don't have any man-on-man fantasies. On the other hand, how can I say I'm 100% straight if penises turn me on? lol What are your thoughts?

Thanks in advance.

I would say bi-curious.
The thought and fantasy of other men turn you on,.

Will the fantasy turn into reality ..................... possibly at the stage when the curiosity becomes overwhelming and you need to take a look in box
 
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Thanks for the replies. It's helpful. I wouldn't feel bad about being bi but I've been confused because it doesn't seem like I fit neatly into either category. I couldn't enjoy sexual acts with a man but I enjoy fantasizing about parts of their bodies. I guess this is more indication that it's a spectrum. The closest I have come is being very tempted to go into a male strip club when I was away on business to see in person what I had been seeing in porn for so long. In the end, I decided against it. I was very nervous about it and concerned I would be overwhelmed.
 

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You’re not alone. And the number of “100% straight” men I see posting their approval of cock photos on this site confirms that.

I’m the same way; never experienced another dick but I think about it ... a lot. It’s funny too, because I’ve seen those side-by-side images of a hot chick & a nice cock and it’s like, “Which image are you looking at?” And for me it’s usually the cock! Or some chick sucking a nice dick & it says “You want to be her.” And, well ... it’s tue ..... LOL! I’m lucky my girlfriend likes big-cock porn too ....

Don’t worry about it. Enjoy what you enjoy. It’s up to you what you choose what you like and what, if anything you choose to do about it.

I hope you get to act on your desires some day.
 
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Hello, all. I would like your opinion on whether you think I am bi or at least partially and maybe see if any of you can relate.

I have been turned on by huge penises for as long as I can remember, but only on their own or when seen with a woman. When I look at porn of two men interacting, it's a turnoff for me. Please understand that this isn't any kind of moral judgement or any kind of choice on my part. It's just that when I see men kissing or having sex, it's a turnoff. That's just how my body responds, and it's not a judgement in any way. In fact, the logical part of my brain says, good for them, they look like they're having fun! But my body doesn't respond. However, when I see a huge penis with a woman or a guy jerking off, it's a huge turn-on. My fantasy is having that penis myself and using it to satisfy a woman or just enjoying it myself. So, on the one hand, I may be 100% straight since I don't have any man-on-man fantasies. On the other hand, how can I say I'm 100% straight if penises turn me on? lol What are your thoughts?

Thanks in advance.

I wouldn't consider you to be bisexual. I'm thinking you need to have some kind of sexual contact with another man to be considered bisexual.
 

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I have been turned on by huge penises...when seen with a woman ...or a guy jerking off. When I look at porn of two men interacting, it's a turnoff for me... I may be 100% straight since I don't have any man-on-man fantasies. On the other hand, how can I say I'm 100% straight if penises turn me on? lol ....What are your thoughts?

Specific erotic images get you sexually aroused, but not the ones involving m2m sex. I don't see you as being bisexual. If you someday find fantasies of men being amourous with each other appealing too - then consider that label.
 
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Hello, all. I would like your opinion on whether you think I am bi or at least partially and maybe see if any of you can relate.

I have been turned on by huge penises for as long as I can remember, but only on their own or when seen with a woman. When I look at porn of two men interacting, it's a turnoff for me. Please understand that this isn't any kind of moral judgement or any kind of choice on my part. It's just that when I see men kissing or having sex, it's a turnoff. That's just how my body responds, and it's not a judgement in any way. In fact, the logical part of my brain says, good for them, they look like they're having fun! But my body doesn't respond. However, when I see a huge penis with a woman or a guy jerking off, it's a huge turn-on. My fantasy is having that penis myself and using it to satisfy a woman or just enjoying it myself. So, on the one hand, I may be 100% straight since I don't have any man-on-man fantasies. On the other hand, how can I say I'm 100% straight if penises turn me on? lol What are your thoughts?

Thanks in advance.

You sounds pretty similar to me. I dont like labels but I've pretty much settled on myself as having a big-cock fetish as opposed to "bisexual". Gay porn doesnt do anything for me. Ive experimented with guys but I am just not turned on by any part of the male body aside from a nice big cock. Oral and jacking. MMF threesomes especially
 
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You’re not alone. And the number of “100% straight” men I see posting their approval of cock photos on this site confirms that.

I’m the same way; never experienced another dick but I think about it ... a lot. It’s funny too, because I’ve seen those side-by-side images of a hot chick & a nice cock and it’s like, “Which image are you looking at?” And for me it’s usually the cock! Or some chick sucking a nice dick & it says “You want to be her.” And, well ... it’s tue ..... LOL! I’m lucky my girlfriend likes big-cock porn too ....

Don’t worry about it. Enjoy what you enjoy. It’s up to you what you choose what you like and what, if anything you choose to do about it.

I hope you get to act on your desires some day.

LOL me too on those videos. I'm always looking at the cock if it's a big one. I have wondered what it is. I think it's that a very large cock is so rare. Most of the studies I've read where the researcher is measuring (not self measured), anything over 7" or 8" is incredibly rare. So, seeing one even bigger than that is very shocking and captivating. I wonder if it has anything to do with how we evolved as primates and at one point were all walking around nude and basically gangbanging and having orgies. There are a few books on that subject on my reading list - early human sexuality - but I haven't gotten around to reading them yet.
 
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