do you think its odd for a bf/hubby to buy you an XL toy?

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Mine took me to an adult store for the first time a few years ago. He told me that he wanted to get me a dildo and wanted me to choose a big one. After looking around I chose one that was 6" insertable and 6.5" around. It wasn't the biggest there, but to me it looked huge. I'd never had anything that big inside me and I wasn't sure it would even fit. But it did and it felt ok. About a year later he surprised me with a new dildo that was 7 insertable and 7 around. I thought he was crazy when I saw it. It was thicker than my forearm. To be honest I was scared to even try it. But I did. It took several attempts and a couple of months before I was able to get it in. It hurt a bit at first, but eventually I got used to it. Gave me the best orgasms I'd ever had. It's still my favourite dildo and I love taking every inch of it. About half a year later he surprised me with a new one: 11 insertable and 8 around. Same process as before, it took a while to get it to fit inside me. I don't like it as much as the second one though because my pussy has to stretch to accommodate its thickness each time I use it. I've found that the absolute maximum size I can take is about 8 x 8, but I'm so stretched out that its a bit uncomfortable.
I guess to answer your question, I didn't think it was odd that he wanted me to use big dildos, but it was different, if that makes any sense. I had never thought about it before and I'm glad he did because its been a lot of fun. I know it turns him on seeing me taking a big cock and it turns me on being filled like that. I still like him to do me after I'm finished playing with the dildo because I prefer having a real dick inside me rather than a plastic one. He says he hasn't felt much of a difference in how tight I am, so thus far neither of us have had a problem with it.
 

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I don't think it is odd because I know that many men are into stretching as a fetish. Unfortunately, my ex was not. When we were early in our relationship, we went on a little toy shopping spree. He wanted to help me pick a new toy but when we got to the section with dildos, he had an awkward look on his face when he saw how large they were. He is five in so a bit small. I whispered to the woman helping us that I need something no bigger than him. There were many times in our relationship that I wanted a cock larger than his. It would have been great if I could bring a large toy in but I did not want to hurt his feelings. It is nice to read women here have partners more secure than my ex.
 

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My wife ordered a toy bigger than I am. No problem. She enjoys it, but will always put it aside to feel my warm, hard, and dripping cum dick inside her. That I really appreciate.
 

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Mine took me to an adult store for the first time a few years ago. He told me that he wanted to get me a dildo and wanted me to choose a big one. After looking around I chose one that was 6" insertable and 6.5" around. It wasn't the biggest there, but to me it looked huge. I'd never had anything that big inside me and I wasn't sure it would even fit. But it did and it felt ok. About a year later he surprised me with a new dildo that was 7 insertable and 7 around. I thought he was crazy when I saw it. It was thicker than my forearm. To be honest I was scared to even try it. But I did. It took several attempts and a couple of months before I was able to get it in. It hurt a bit at first, but eventually I got used to it. Gave me the best orgasms I'd ever had. It's still my favourite dildo and I love taking every inch of it. About half a year later he surprised me with a new one: 11 insertable and 8 around. Same process as before, it took a while to get it to fit inside me. I don't like it as much as the second one though because my pussy has to stretch to accommodate its thickness each time I use it. I've found that the absolute maximum size I can take is about 8 x 8, but I'm so stretched out that its a bit uncomfortable.
I guess to answer your question, I didn't think it was odd that he wanted me to use big dildos, but it was different, if that makes any sense. I had never thought about it before and I'm glad he did because its been a lot of fun. I know it turns him on seeing me taking a big cock and it turns me on being filled like that. I still like him to do me after I'm finished playing with the dildo because I prefer having a real dick inside me rather than a plastic one. He says he hasn't felt much of a difference in how tight I am, so thus far neither of us have had a problem with it.

god i love it when beautiful ladies give good info on their perspective in this and are open minded about trying anything!

do you have any theories on why its giving you the best orgasms you've ever had? and is that in relation to other dildos, other cocks, or just everyway you've had sex and orgasmed before? or is it due to just being a fun/kinky scene with your partner that does it more for you?

i bought the wife a large toy a while back and apparently went way too large with the first venture into that world for her, but i'm like your bf in that i would adore watching her take something truly large and hope that it gives her the best cumming she's ever had as well
 

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I got my wife one toy that was much larger than I am (8x5.5 at mid-shaft), but we had to scale back because she couldn't take it. I didn't measure it, but I'd guess around 11x8. She picked out a vibrator next, which ended up being the same length as me, but somewhat smaller in girth. She really liked that one, but it has now bitten the dust. I'll buy her one about the same length, but I'm going to go up in girth to at least as big as me, and maybe a little bigger. I'm around 6.25 at the base, so I want to give her a vibrator at least that big. I won't go up to 8 inches in girth again just because I know she couldn't get it inside her. Otherwise, I'd have no problem with it.
 

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