Do you think it's possible???

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  1. Amber1

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    To be on a forum like this without getting into a single really annoying arguement with anyone!!!

    Or without encountering some complete twat who completely rubs you up the wrong way with silly sly remarks???

    While putting words in your mouth and making out you are attacking them!!!

    I'm a pretty peaceful person in everyday life BUT even I after just over a month on here have now managed to encounter such an
    agitating individual. :mad:

    grrrr.

    Would be interested to hear peoples thoughts on the matter!! :smile:

    x

     
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    no, don't think it's possible

    even with a lot of giggle juice running through my veins

    some days more so than others
     
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    If you have a thought, viewpoint or idea it is almost impossible not to encounter individuals who differ. Most of the people here are very intelligent, decent and well mannered people, but like life there are always others who lack diplomatic and social skills. I feel we can all gain insight from others, I also feel the "ignore" feature here offers something we don't have in real life.
     
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    I've never had a long one, there's been one or two times were the argument lasts a couple of posts but it's not drawn out and it's usually just academic arguments about something. It's possible too not get in them if you just let it go and don't fight back. Arguments are giving the other person something to counter, no fighting back, no way to continue it.
     
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    Okay thats true... and an interesting point.

    It's just so annoying when they twist ur words and say personal things...for instance people accusing you of saying mean things you haven't!!!

    OMG HE has just posted on the thread AGAIN the one I have been arguing with!!!!

    I must resist the urge to say anything back!!!!

    LOL!!!


     
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    In my opinion the only thing worse than arguing in cyberspace is posting a thead about arguing in cyberspace.
     
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    Great now HE has put up an umbrella!!!???

    Wat does that mean anyone???

    nothin else just an umbrella!!!

    I bet its something unpleasent!! I will NOT react!!!!
     
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    Amber, I would respond, just not to his post. It shows that you're going to post, but just not to him. It's a subtle 'sod off, because I'm not going to continue this with you'. Be the bigger man, er, woman.
     
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    Delighted to hear that someone has finally introduced you to the world of blogs and public postings. Welcome.

    It's strange but true that at a site dedicated to dicks, some people act like assholes. I would much prefer that they act like dicks, myself.
     
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    Yes, it is.. But there are those out there that I think look for arguments. If they come out you aggressively in a way that suggests they re giving you your opinion, ignore them.

    There will always be a rough twat out there as well, usually the guys from the reference above.

    Putting words in your mouth. When you see that happening, assume they are hearing only what they want to hear. No offense but I have dealt with enough people in real life to know that they are the ones who are in there own little world.

    Its the peaceful ones that the angry ones cant leave alone.

    Grrrr - I really should practice what I preach.
     
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    but he's really annoying and dammn I couldn't help it!!!

    anyway it's intersting to see what people have to say well I think so

    anyway. :smile:
     
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    Part of the problem is that text can sometimes be misinterpreted, it doesn't allow for body language, inflections etc. That and being behind a keyboard, people feel safe and are able to say anything they want without hindrance.
     
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    Ha,ha,ha shouldn't we all!!:smile:
     
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    Usually it means it's raining :biggrin1:
     
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    I would invoke your inner gayness, flip your beautiful hair, and refuse even to acknowledge dicks at all. When all is said and done, do you really care about the dicks?
     
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    ha, ha,ha,

    I certainly don't care about dicks like THAT!!! thanx.

    x
     
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    Amber you are tipping your hand with this thread. There is a member here who hates me
    sooooooo much YouTube - Flames on the side of my face

    One thing I have learned in life and here is that:
    If you take the high road, they have no choice but to take the high road also, and if they take the low road they look like an ass.
     
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    Hehe. Once you're here a while, you will learn to put it into perspective. Don't take anything personally, there are a million personalities and backgrounds here, and nearly everyone is anonymous, which adds fire to any debate.
     
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    HE is fuckin annoyin me!!!

    Idiot took my quote from one thread and started a new one with it to proove a silly point!!! or try and make me look silly.....

    wat a twat!!!!

    grrrrrrrrr
     
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