Do you think less of a man with a small penis?

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im curious because in this culture huge penises are basically envied by both sexes. im bigger than average but i always feel bad for those who are small. ive personally seen guys in the lockerroom who are packing like basically just a mushroom head and even i start thinking differently about them(although its not fair to judge someone by their flaccid state). i think wow this dudes life must suck-but im competitive in nature so thats why i go there with it. But what is your reaction to a less than average erection? any experiences?
 
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I don't think less of a man because he happens to have a small(er) penis.
It's not all there is. What if Brad Pitt had a smaller penis then me? He'd still be a much finer physical specimen of a man then me then I'd ever be. What if Bill Gates had a small one? He'd still be richer then I can ever dream of becoming.

If I discover someone has a small penis it does not make think less of that man. And to do so would be shallow, and give me a false and undeserved sense of superiority. Although, it does stroke my ego knowing my manhood is larger then someone else's. I realise, however, it says nothing about my talent or intelligence. It's a very primal, animalistic feeling, knowing your totem's the biggest one. ;)
 

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Not once in my life have I ever treated a human being differently by the size of their sexual organ, or their bustline, or waistline or anything.

And your generalization that all genders long for a large penis is quite insulting to me. Trust me on this one thing: that has never been a goal in my life!

So here's a recommendation: give it up. Forget about size. Forget about your size or anyone else. Concentrate on things that count and can be changed if they must be changed. If you want to waste your time worshipping an appendage then I'm out of ideas.
 

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"Average" means that some are bigger, some are smaller. By definition, 50% of guys have a smaller than average penis.

But speaking as a guy with a smaller than average (but by no means tiny) penis I must say that all the media focus on "bigger is better", and the jokes about small penises, can easily give a guy an inferiority complex and damage his self-esteem. I have a fairly robust mental and emotional make-up, but even so, I cannot deny that I am sensitive about being seen fully naked - though not as sensitive now, as a mature adult, as I was when I was in my teens and twenties. I can walk bravely into an open gang shower, and have even stripped off on a nude beach, but my sense of vulnerability remains.

This is of course quite absurd, because being smaller than 50% (or maybe even 60%) of other guys in that part of my anatomy is no reflection on my masculinity, sexual prowess, intellect, character or anything else about me.

I'm not entirely sure why I found myself a member of a group which bills itself as a "large penis support group" and I have yet to discover what support most of these guys who boast about being "hung" either need or receive!! :) But I am curious to get some honest comments from other guys, and of course the ladies who have found their way onto this site, about how you regard we guys who fall into the lower half of the scale.
 

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Most men (and women) are neutral to me, I don't know them, I do not think of them much less envy their penis.
Some men will grab my attention, some will engage my mind, others my senses, few I will interested and crave sexually..I am not craving men that I am not attracted to. I am not attracted to experiencing something I know already is not pleasurable. I have my settled tried preferences for men (and women)
 

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im sorry males but this is in "womens issues" so try not answer please. females only
This is women's issues, not ask a woman. If you only want female responses, you're in the wrong section. I have to say though, I hope you don't move the thread. I quite like reading the men's responses to your query.

I don't think anything about flaccid penises. They all look strange and wonderful to me, though some look stranger, and some more wonderful. I only see flaccids at naturalist or nudist places anyway. And, of course, I see my husband's sometimes (rarely- he's usually got a chubber around me) and my boyfriend's pretty regularly.

I have been exposed to some very small erections, and had sexual contact with some. Though size did on one occasion play a role in me declining intercourse, I never thought less of anyone as a man. I wouldn't take anyone to bed for whom I did not have the utmost respect as a person. Genitals don't strip the things I admired about them in the first place.
 

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Particularly as men are far more likely to agree with the OP.

well i posted it in the wrong section then, im somewhat new here. so men can answer in womens issues? good to know. i will be doing that. i wish i could move this post to ask a woman frankly
 
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Like woman, like man, sexy comes in all shapes and sizes. Simple as that.

Yes, some of the least endowed (in all that our culture considers sexually attractive, that is) women I've made love to have been absolutely fantastic sex partners.

'Cause it's all in the attitude.
 

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I don't judge a person based on their sex organs. I will likely judge them on how they act because of their sex organs.

I like large breasts and a curvy ass on women. But if she is acting like a cheap slut and constantly using them for attention, she will quickly become unattractive to me.
 

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um are you aware at what website this is? :eek:
with over 2400 posts I think she's aware
are you going to be another dude who asks woman questions and then tell them there answers are wrong?
I hope the dudes with smaller dicks than you take comfort in knowing you feel sorry for them.Oh and if I ever deteriorated to the point of envying another mans dick I'd put a bullit in my head
 

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It's a shame that people define manhood in terms of endowment. I'm not well endowed at all, possibly below average yet I think I'm as much of a man as any arbitrary well hung male on this board. I guess ones attitude and confidence can outweigh a few inches of flesh and a few milliliters of blood. I am a doctoral candidate in Physics and if I had to choose between having my intelligence or having the ideal tool for vaginal penetration, I'd go with the former. You are entitled to make your judgements, but note that penile dimensions may be favorable in a mechanical sense more so than a societal. I wouldn't personally judge someone based on something physical and determined by genetic code. The majority of the population is technically less intelligent than I am, yet I treat everyone with respect and dignity and I do not make negative judgements on factors that were determined at birth. I was fortunate to be endowed mentally and I am grateful for that. The distribution of traits is so random that it is ridiculous to judge others by elements that are out of their control. For all you know, the lesser endowed males could be veterans, engineers, scientists, or politicians and their contributions may significantly outweigh yours. What do you have in the end? Just a few milliliters of blood and a couple of inches of flesh to boast about....
 
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I think less of men that obsess about size whether "big" or "small".

I totally agree. Men who obsess about the size of their cocks are very unappealing.

um are you aware at what website this is? :eek:

She certainly does. As do I.

with over 2400 posts I think she's aware
are you going to be another dude who asks woman questions and then tell them there answers are wrong?
I hope the dudes with smaller dicks than you take comfort in knowing you feel sorry for them.Oh and if I ever deteriorated to the point of envying another mans dick I'd put a bullit in my head

Don't do it! Smart men are smexy! :biggrin1:
 

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im curious because in this culture huge penises are basically envied by both sexes. im bigger than average but i always feel bad for those who are small. ive personally seen guys in the lockerroom who are packing like basically just a mushroom head and even i start thinking differently about them(although its not fair to judge someone by their flaccid state). i think wow this dudes life must suck-but im competitive in nature so thats why i go there with it. But what is your reaction to a less than average erection? any experiences?

I think less of "men" who pass judgement on other men for the size of an appendage.

I feel bad for people who have so little experience, sense of self, or clarity on what makes a person valuable that they consider penis size a significant part of that.

As for what this site is... There's a world of difference between interest, appreciation, and utter obsession. FAR too many people cross the line into pre-occupation and go bat-shit crazy.
 

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just so we are clear i dont diminish their spirit or challenge being more manly than me i just cant help but feel bad for them because im so obsessed with my penis. in retrospect you should feel bad for me to be so self absorbed with my genitals