Do you think males or females enjoy sex more?

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  1. Symphonic

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    Well, it seems that females enjoy it more than males in my opinion; I don't know really though. Who do you think enjoys sexual contact, or even masturbation, more?
     
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    I don't have problem with enjoying sex. I have problems with the men I have sex with. But I am not out there sleeping with men without discretion. I make the wrong selections. Or maybe I am just wrong for the men I am with. It does get tiring though. Frustrating.



     
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    I tend to think women enjoy good sex more than men do. But I think that for most women, good sex is harder to come by than it is for most men, if you follow me.
     
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    It is hard to judge who enjoys it more since that is subjective. It does seem that women have a broader spectrum on HOW they enjoy it. Some women want more than just "in an out, repeat", and some men are fine with just that.
     
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    Easy answer: women.

    Lick your finger, then rub it around inside your ear and see which one feels better.


    :tongue:
     
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    Who can ever truly know?

    This subject must be on the agenda in some of the more progressive university philosophy programs, no?
     
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    Yes. In lieu of contract law.
     
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    Oh, now you're just grandstanding. :wink:
     
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    I'd say men - go to where prostitutes hang out and see how many are women selling services to men vs. how many men selling services to women. There's your answer - at least on the physical level.
     
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    good grief.
     
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    Yes, some of the more poetic in the crowd have likened sex to just that.
     
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    I think it depends on the person and you can't really say that men enjoy it more than women or that women enjoy it more than men. Each person is different and has their own level of sex drive, and often it also comes down to what they've experienced - have they experienced the kind of sex that would be most satisfying to them, or maybe they haven't at that time.
     
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    A woman can get laid just by offering pussy. A man has to jump though hoops for it or pay for it.

    Enjoying it is a different thing. I think women have a greater range of pleasure with sex. If things go great their sex is great! They don't need to cum to have great sex. Men are like a switch. We cum, or we don't. And if we don't we're disappointed.
     
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    IMO in general, males enjoy sex more than females, but if the male knows what he is doing, then I'd have to say women enjoy it most.
     
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    Everyone 'enjoys' sex, however...

    The average "man" or "woman" is just the typical bad at sex horn dog. They will have sex with just about anything. The average person, bf/gf, or husband/wife knows nothing about 'good' sex!

    Sexually immature "men" and "women" whether it be bf/gf or husband/wife, etc. only enjoy the "wham bam thank ya ma'am I think we had great sex because we emulated what we saw in a porn movie one time" scenarios. Even though neither of them came or got any type of euphoric feeling over the whole experience.

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    Classy, fit, mature "men" and "women" enjoy good, fulfilling, passionate, you both have strong orgasms after it's all over sex. And to experience this you have to have another classy, mature non run of the mill sex partner mind you, i.e. not the average inexperienced or immature person listed above. You have to work to get to this sexual stage, most people never get to it. It's like physical fitness, it has to be your mind set and your everyday goal.
     
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    regardless of how 'mature' my partner is, i'm just not that into sex actually.
     
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    For clarification, when I say "mature" I'm talking about mental maturity more so than physical maturity. Although both are applicable.

    Dolfette, I'm sure you would enjoy sex if it were with a person whom you really liked, correct?
     
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    Men are constantly horny and some are uncontroable (porn addicts, prostitution etc)

    So they enjoy getting off more.

    But I truly believe that women enjoy the intimate part of sex more - NOT love - keep reading.

    A guy jerks off and he is good - a woman masturbates and its okay

    But if i want to have a orgasm then i need a guy
     
  19. dolfette

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    i knew what you meant, thank you.

    and however much i like my lover, i'm just not that into sex actually.
    it's ok but it's not as exciting as shoe shopping.
    mmm...shoes...
     
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    Please, this was settled by the Greeks millenias ago.

    In a separate episode,[7] Tiresias was drawn into an argument between Hera and her husband Zeus, on the theme of who has more pleasure in sex: the man, as Hera claimed; or, as Zeus claimed, the woman, as Tiresias had experienced both. Tiresias replied "Of ten parts a man enjoys one only."[8] Hera instantly struck him blind for his impiety. Zeus could do nothing to stop her, but he did give Tiresias the gift of foresight[9] and a lifespan of seven lives.
     
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