Do you think of anyone else when having sex?

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  1. Mr_Cumalot

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    Just a quick one. Just wondered how common it was to picture someone else whilst having sex with your partner. With my ex i used to 'fantasise' whilst getting head or fucking her to get myself to cum. Dont do it anymore. Wonder if when girls have their eyes shut they are doing the same or are they more prone to concentrating on the sensations?
     
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    Does yelling "Jeasus!" or "Oh Godddd!" count?
     
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    I think we all do sometimes.....you're normal!
     
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    No. But, I will sometimes fantasize about the situation. I will think of her as a stripper I am banging in the office, because she is trying to get a day off, or a cheap hooker. Anything to get an extra kink that is non normal that would not happen in real life. But it is always the woman I am banging who I am thinking about.
     
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    This has happened to me in an unwanted kind of way.
    Like while im having sex my mind just seems to wander and i might know or have seen a girl i liked and then her image would just pop into my head and id see her instead of the girl im with.
    Its led to me randomly shaking my head and grunting as i try to shift the image and the girl im with gives me a confused look or takes it as a compliment (like she thinks im really enjoying the sex).
    I think once i had to stop briefly as i started to feel guilty because the image wouldnt shift, like id keep my erection but i felt like i was being disrespectful to the girl im with and just tried to unfocus my mind then focus back on her.
     
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    I think of everybody else while I'm having sex.
     
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    I have fantasy of gangbang by mix group of black and white huge men. I dont think b/f knows :biggrin1:
     
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    Everybody does it...but don't tell anyone I told you.
     
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    Nope I don't,the only thing going through my head is"will she let me have her ass tonight?"
     
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    I have an average cock..but when my wife and I fuck..she talks about how a big cock feels..and I luv to cum thinking of her straddling/handjobbing one...so I fantasize about her with someone else..not necesarily me with someone else..
     
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    No, but I used to when I was married!
     
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    Exactly. What's more, Bubba and I also talk openly during sex about our fantasies involving other hot cubs and bears. WOOF!
     
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    LMAO!
     
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    I don't think of other guys, but when my eyes are closed I am really concentrating on the feeling. Oh, I love that feeling!

    I can always tell when a guy is really into me and I am fixed in their heads. But I can't always tell when a guy is fantasizing about another person - they could just as easily be concentrating on the sensations or thinking of baseball scores! I had one guy admit he was doing math in his head so he could make it last longer!
     
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    I have thought of someone other than the woman I have been f***cking on a couple of occasions- not something unusual, especially if it's a bad one or you want to come quickly.
     
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    "if it's a bad one"? lol
     
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