As a gay teenager i tried to play it straight having a lot of sex with women. I always used condoms but as a result of a condom breaking I became a daddy at age 18.Today I have a straight son aged 16 who I know is sexually active and I pray to God that he will become a dad when he is ready. I am now out as a gay man and father and once again the use of condoms seems to be imperative in most sexual situations. I guess you could say ive seen it from both sides now. Some gay men are very responsible in using condoms, fearing the HIV virus; others are not. Straight young men fear getting a girlfriend pregnant;others shrug their shoulders and say its the girls responsibility. So who has it easier? Who is more responsible? The gay man or the straight man?