Do you think the older you get the more open you are to sexual experiementation?

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I am laid back about certain things. I am energetic, animated, intense and passionate but since the surgery I'm tame like a gelding in comparison.

I've kind of noticed that. You are like the best version of Maddy R possible! Who knew you could get even better? :biggrin1: (Btw, you're still pretty feisty)
 

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I've kind of noticed that. You are like the best version of Maddy R possible! Who knew you could get even better? :biggrin1: (Btw, you're still pretty feisty)

I'm glad you noticed! My husband is enjoying this immensely and his stepmother said that it could work wonders for mellowing me out. Nowadays I like to think of myself as Feisty with a lot of lightheartedness mixed in for good measure.
 

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Great thread. Obviously, from the answers here it is totally a matter of individual taste and experience.

For me, I was always sexually adventuraous in my head...had some 3-some/4-some experience in college then spent a monogamous, MUCH less adventurous 25 years with the same partner. While I may have sex with slightly less frequency now then I did when in the long-term relationship/marriage, it is quite a bit more varied, kinky, open, etc. At 48, I learned to dance, learned that kink, bi, flirtatious, poly...were all words that I could apply to myself comfortably for the first time in life. Now 55, I'm looking for a perfect partner(s) to enjoy my sexiness with. The desperation of my dating years has been replaced by confidence, experience, and the dreaded M word "maturity"...and it's working for me!
 

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I'm glad you noticed! My husband is enjoying this immensely and his stepmother said that it could work wonders for mellowing me out. Nowadays I like to think of myself as Feisty with a lot of lightheartedness mixed in for good measure.

You just seem happier - but not being in pain does that. :hug:
 

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to answer the OP's original question, I don't know whether ageing has made me more OPEN to sexual experimentation, I've always been open to experimenting. Doing so, is another story. I find that as I've grown older, I've had the tendency to go out and do things, as opposed to just fantasizing about it.
 

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Do you think the older you get the more open you are to sexual experiementation



think in the final analysis, am tired and worn out, and tbh, cant be fckd, as i have become older
then again ...
have known some in there 80s, still performing (so they say) like a buck rabbitt .. in there words anyway ha, good on them.

overall i think i was always trying out new things, as i got older,and learned or heard of them..
 

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Yes.

Take high school for example. One of the biggest, coolest, most masculine jocks you knew might have been bi or gay. When in high school and under the intense scrutiny and intense peer pressure he probably thought never in a million years would he do anything gay related.

Then 30 years later when he's been out in the world a long time, seen how many people just like him are bi and gay, coupled with dealing with the intense deisre of his gay related interest he decides he's going to try it.

Also, people mellow out with age and just give in.
 

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I guess that would depend on the person. Some people are more hung-up, sexually speaking, when they are just starting out and learning how to do it and what they like, then they break free from that and explore. Others may be inclined to experiment first, then settle down. I think part of it is just the individual's ability to deal with the hang-ups as they occur, and how long we carry them around with us. Kind of hard to say for somebody else.