Do you think this is disgusting? ladies.

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  1. inspectahdck

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    I would like an input from ladies on the ''Spiters''
    i dont produce precum, so i have always been used to use my saliva as
    lubricant, both when just masturbating or with a woman.
    Of course, if i got lube at my disposition i will gladly use it.
    but for the times i dont have any, do you think its disgusting when a guy ''spits'' i dont mean like a manly spit you see every guy in the street do with a loud sound, just saliva.
    sometimes i dont have to when my partner gets really wet, but some girls have troubles with their glands and dont get wet that easely.

    i also sometimes use light oliva oil, alone or with a partner, it can leave the skin soiled in a greasy(personaly, just soap will remove it at 90% but it can irritate)
    would you mind if used on you?

    Thanks for your input :)
     
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    Olive oil or spit??? I am not sure on either, actually. Mmmm, uh, well. Let's start with the spit. Not so sure this happens outside of porn, but who am I to say??? I think I'd personally prefer lubricant, but then I have never had this 'dryness' problem -- unless, er, I, well, I'm not into the guy? But -- all ladies are built differently, so maybe your friends were. So, lubricant, first before spit thank you. Then, olive oil? It causes some irritation to the skin?? If so, then no. That's some very, very tender parts down there, no painful rashes, thanks!

    So, all around? Lubricant. They make some fun ones. Why not try a few? :p
     
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    Jenna Jameson once said if she could give one piece of advice to guys out there it was:
    "Don't use lube, use spit."
     
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    Oh goody, more helpful tips from porn.

    Saliva contains digestive enzymes.

    I don't want your enzymes digesting what is already a mucous membrane.
     
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    yeh i prefer lube over spit should their be a dryness problem or whatever

    and olive oil? are we cooking or fucking? lol, stay away from the olive oil with me
     
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    I cant think of any more than a turn off than spitting... I personally think it is totally gross.... IF you need to use spit as a means of a lube then atleast be appropriate when putting it on.... there are plenty of means than hicking up a goli and slapping it on a pussy!

    ummmmm olive oil??? ummm no!
     
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    i know they show spitting in porn... but that is just disgusting! i would never ever spit on a girl i wanted to have sex with, even for lube... it just means i get to work more on getting her wet with my tongue or fingers :)
     
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    I think if you are going to use spit, it should be applied with your tongue! ;)

    Olive oil- or any other handy item around the house- no. Invest in some decent lube.
     
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    buy some fucking lube!

    spitting is disgusting, wherever it's done.
    and you don't put food on your bits.
     
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    Thats not entirely true... there are certain foods that are good to be placed on your bits espeically if being licked off but not for internally for lube!!!

    :eek::eek:
     
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    if you're talking chocolate sauce and ice cream,
    then i'm talking thrush!

    hmmm...live yogurt. thrush cure/food.
     
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    Using his saliva is slightly different from him spitting on me no matter how sexy he tries to do it. Just let the saliva roll off your tongue. But I guess some women are into spitters.
     
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    My biggest problem with oils in general is the consistency isn't very pleasurable to begin with. It's fine for jelqing and general vaginal massages (stay away from mineral oils), but the feel of my cock sliding in and out of an oil-laden vagina isn't as good as bottled lube. The water based stuff dries up/soaks in pretty quickly, but the silicone stuff lasts longer (about 45 minutes between applications).

    Best lube, hands down, is my semen.

    Oh, and good luck washing olive oil out of your sheets. Maybe it's me, but I find olive oil and menstrual blood difficult to wash off.
     
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    I dont like spit being put into my pussy.....I have used baby oil before....but never any lubricant that can also be used to stop food from sticking in the pan...lol
    no olive oil, canola, peanut oil, bacon grease, ect.
     
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    Never found a use for dribbling in the bedroom yet, and I am happy to keep it that way. Natural wetness or for whatever reason that does not occur? then lube in a tube.
     
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    Ohhhh, is THAT what they mean by "being eaten"?? :eek::biggrin1::biggrin1:

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    I don't like men spitting on their hand and transferring it to their dick, and I don't like lube. So, I hold off on penetration until I have sufficient lubrication.

    My opinion is this: If a girl isn't lubricated, DON'T FUCK HER until she is wet.

    And if she never gets wet, she should solve the problem with (a) figuring out what gets her juices going, (b) de-stress and/or adjust her birth control, (c) Use something like "Replens" -- a magic bullet that you use only once every two or three days, and you have more than enough lubrication.
     
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    Why are you spitting?! Just eat it up and slob it down before intercourse.
     
  19. inspectahdck

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    you all tend to forget that oliva oil has the property to leave the skin really smooth, it was used by the greeks really often as well as milk for the skin.
    when i said it can irritate i didnt mean a rash, just that the oil hardly gets off. some soap remove most of it, ive never had a rash.
     
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    Like the inside of the mouth isn't one big mucous membrane itself? :rolleyes:

    Unless your snatch is made of starch or fat, you have little to fear from saliva being on or in it.

    Personally, I go for olive oil if lube is required. Never had any problem laundering it out of the linens, either, but my sheets are just cotton. I can't speak for what it may do to silk or any synthetic fabrics...YMMV.
     
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