Mikeyinbrooklyn is right here. "Hate" always look petulant and intolerant of other people's ways and opinions, and, like a lot of us, it goes both ways.
Am I the only one who thinks it's kind of asinine to speculate that someone is or is not gay based on the assumption that they're probably hiding something, or they protest too much, or they have some feminine traits? Likewise for guessing what position they would favor based on their personality or appearance? It's 2011. We should all know better than that and be past it as a society by now. For all the talk in this thread about getting out of the dark ages and not making sweeping judgments, there's a hell of a lot of "He must be a faggotty bottom because he's gentle and nice."