Do you think watching your partner masturbate would help you understand them better?

[Symphonic]

I am unsure if it would or not. What is your opinion on the matter? Or experiences if you have already done so.

 

[Road_cyclist]

In the first place I think it is super important that a partner accepts it when the other masturbates. And let them do it whenever they feel like it.

 

[dazza46]

to watch my partner masterbate would pos help to know how she likes to have it done . more as to how she likes certain parts touched and in what way she likes it done.

 

[DurhamBull]

I am unsure if it would or not. What is your opinion on the matter? Or experiences if you have already done so.

It help you understand why they find enjoyable as we are all different in what we like and don't like.

 

[twoton]

I don't think it would do much in terms of understanding her.

 

[22D ROCK]

Help me understand her...NO... But I would watch her all day long.

 

[554279]

No. I think even when people masturbate in front of other people it is a different sex act, than when one gets on oneself in their privacy. IMHO its more of exhibitionism and voyeurism, more than autoeroticism.

 

[Ed69]

With my wife no watching did not help. Her guiding my hand and me doing the same for her worked great. Mutual masturbation is a regular part of our sex life.

 

[ronin001]

I think women in general convey verbally, or through body language what they like ; or what they do not like during foreplay or the sex act itself.

 

[Mr_Magick]

As a straight man, yes there is nothing more insightful into the sexual psyche of a woman than watching her masturbate and pleasure herself. In fact the primary woman I have been fucking has the most underdeveloped sexual personality for any woman Ive met that I would consider to be a Nympho

 

[BetterFuture]

Sure... it would be a great way to see exactly what she likes... a picture is worth a thousand words.. (well in this case, watching is more like a video than a still picture )

 

[Geoffrey2_0]

Not sure about helping "understand" her better, but masturbation watching is rather humbling, freeing, and intimate--it brings two people closer together through mutual shared vulnerability . . .

 

[jtheimpaler]

Haha I wouldn't say "understand", I'm not sure I want to understand her, what I do want to know, and let's be honest see, is how her body reacts to different styles, what works for her , where she concentrates her energy. I personally love mutual masturbation, sat opposite each other both masturbating, getting off watching the other getting off, great foreplay, can be intense, and the build up to the fuck can heighten the experiance.....

 

[Scguy522]

Of course! They know what feels good to them and you could learn a lot from watching.

 

[goander]

Absolutely !

 

[rbi99]

Our #1 favorite sexual activity is when I insert two fingers into her vagina while she uses her Hitachi Wonder Wand on herself. Feeling her orgasms and how tight she squeezes my fingers while inside her almost makes me cum by itself.

 

[thick_]

With my wife no watching did not help. Her guiding my hand and me doing the same for her worked great. Mutual masturbation is a regular part of our sex life.

Mutual masturbating with her was a great turn on! But I agree having her guide tell me what she likes works better.

 

[deleted1118872]

I don't think my wife has ever masturbated or watched porn. She's not hiding it- she genuinely doesn't do it. I've lived with her for more than a decade, at some point I would have seen something. I've even asked her to do it a couple of times as foreplay and she wouldn't.

My daughters, on the other hand, definitely masturbate and they are terrible at hiding it. I guess they get that from me.

 

[verybored]

Of course it would. I know what I like better than anyone so I assume it's the same way for everyone. It'd be the easiest way to learn what a partner likes.

 

[Elmer Gantry]

We did this early in our relationship and it was an eye opener. My previous girl to Mrs Gantry tended to like things rougher and more frantic. Mrs Gantry takes it much slower and there's a certain tempo to it.

I would have had no idea unless I stopped and watched. It was fucking hot as well!