Do you think we will ever accept sexuality as fluid?

[Tattooed Goddess]

He labels himself gay and said every time he fucked his wife he pictured her vagina to be a man's asshole. Sounds pretty not bi to me. He's been married to a man for many years now and has never shown an interest in women. Ever hear of a lavender marriage that's exactly what he had when he married a woman he was trying to hide his identity. I'm so tired of this labels lecture. Would you like to go to the grocery store and no products have labels on them how do you know what you want and what groceries are for you? Do you just buy the whole store and find out?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I think you’ve been as bad as your parents in categorising him as gay.

This situation is really common for bisexual guys who fuck women and marry then come out and deny they had sexual attraction to women, when I fact they did. Yet biphobia stops then from being truly honest and they feel safer conforming to the straight/gay binary.

Biphobia LOL I am bi I was born bi.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

If a guy who identifies as a gay man who is grossed out by pussy and tits who prefers men and can't get off without thinking about them his entire life? Who am I to not believe him when he says he's gay? I don't give him some lecture on labels and call him bisexual. The man refers to himself as a gay man. Seriously tho. You want to believe we label him. Want his number and you can ask him yourself, @LuckyGuy?

 

[1335531]

Biphobia LOL I am bi I was born bi.

Female bisexuality is a lot lote accepted than male bisexuality.

 

[1335531]

He labels himself gay and said every time he fucked his wife he pictured her vagina to be a man's asshole. Sounds pretty not bi to me. He's been married to a man for many years now and has never shown an interest in women. Ever hear of a lavender marriage that's exactly what he had when he married a woman he was trying to hide his identity. I'm so tired of this labels lecture. Would you like to go to the grocery store and no products have labels on them how do you know what you want and what groceries are for you? Do you just buy the whole store and find out?

Humans aren’t like cans of soup.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Female bisexuality is a lot lote accepted than male bisexuality.

You are correct that you're not correct about my brother. It sounds like you're labeling him as bisexual when he's not isn't that exactly what you're telling us not to do?

 

[1335531]

Biphobia LOL I am bi I was born bi.

Female bisexuality is A LOT more accepted than male bisexuality. Even bi females can be biphobic towards bi men.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Female bisexuality is A LOT more accepted than male bisexuality. Even bi females can be biphobic towards bi men.

Are you saying I'm not accepting of bisexual males? I don't remember saying that.

 

[1335531]

You are correct that you're not correct about my brother. It sounds like you're labeling him as bisexual when he's not isn't that exactly what you're telling us not to do?

I never believe anyone who says there sexuality is fixed.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

If 100% straight does not exist nor can 100% gay exist. They're both fixed sexualities. Since you like to label by not labeling but labeling anyway I would like to say I know some men that are 100% straight but you would spend all day trying to tell me how much they love cock.

 

[BIGBULL29]

I think almost all men have bisexual potential because of their sexual nature: men can get aroused by looking at their own penis - and many, if not most, actually do, if they were to be honest. Most straight men, moreover, don't usually just want lesbian porn - they want to watch big dick porn quite a bit.

Again, let people define themselves as they see fit. Male homosexuality is still very taboo in our culture, despite all the advancements made in gay-straight equality.

Female homosexuality is not accepted, either, in some social circles; but it is overall less taboo for sure. Furthemore, female bisexuality is mainstream in the porn world and in many social circles (swinger clubs; college lesbian crushes, etc.).

No don't you all get your panties all up in the air: I'm not saying all men are secretly gay or hardcore bisexual, craving same-sex sex like a horned up bull.

I really don't care what others like. We're all unique, including our sexualities. Like what you like. Label yourself the way you want, even if I may not think it is an accurate label. I am not arguing with you. We're all just confused and ignorant humans after all. LOL. No one is superior or inferior.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Dude I believe that's the only time I've agreed with you in the history of us both being members of lpsg

 

[meningreentights]

Sexuality usually involves fluids.