Do you think we will ever accept sexuality as fluid?

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Interesting how threatened women, even apparently bisexual women, are by bisexuality in men. It's a total no-no. Why is it such an insult for a straight man to be thought bi or just potentially bi when he is not? Who cares? Gay men are taken for straight all the time. In fact, 'straight acting' is a kind of compliment or pat on the back. If you think it's insulting to be thought gay, that's probably because you think gay is an insult.

I'm not threatened. I've even detailed how I would be open to having a 3-way with another man if my guy told me he was into it. He's just not though.

If I ever "defend" his straightness it's not out of insecurity, it's out of respect for him as a person. He wouldn't have sex with a man just because of "a few beers" just like @Tattooed Goddess says about her husband.

I wouldn't judge him if he did, it just gets under my skin (and his) when gay/bi men try to make that argument. It's rude and inaccurate.

 

[328982]

I'm not threatened. I've even detailed how I would be open to having a 3-way with another man if my guy told me he was into it. He's just not though.

If I ever "defend" his straightness it's not out of insecurity, it's out of respect for him as a person. He wouldn't have sex with a man just because of "a few beers" just like @Tattooed Goddess says about her husband.

I wouldn't judge him if he did, it just gets under my skin (and his) when gay/bi men try to make that argument. It's rude and inaccurate.

It's inaccurate of him but fits some other straight identified men going by this site. Wouldn’t you agree? Plenty of straight men seem open to the possibility of gay sex. I'm not in the business of second guessing their sexual identity. Really, all I'm saying is that even if it is inaccurate, it's not particularly rude and insulting. I suspect those who find the idea of being thought gay a grave insult (either themselves or on behalf of another) think of gay as an insult. I've yet to hear of a gay man insulted for being thought straight. Why? Because nobody thinks it's wrong to be straight.

 

[alcor972]

as I don't drink alcohol… this won't be the good way to bring me to a woman…
no no no…
lol…
now… I watch so much straight porn that… … even if my attention is almost entirely drawn to the male actors… the fact of seeing these handsome guys enjoying fucking pussies… … begins seriously to make me feel to have a taste myself one of these days too…
straight porn is my visual alcohol…
lol
…………………...

- believe me, the butch ones always roll over, especially if you've got a bigger cock than them.

horse… you've more or less reproached to tatooed goddess to bring on the table the big cock story in this other story of sexual fluidity… lol… as if it was a little off-topic...
now… that's yourself who use this argument to explain why a straight guy can apparently feel the need to experiment gay sex…

so tattoed goddess and you finally agree on the possible influence of penis size on sexual fluidity...
………………….
there can be a somewhat similarity within the gay world itself… with the bottoms/tops/versatile labels…
there are tops who clearly explain that they can exceptionnaly bottom if they meet a bigger dicked man...
I think this is close to what you and tattoed goddess [more indirectly and implicitly for her] described…

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

It's not insulting for a straight man to partake in bi or gay sex it's insulting to have a gay or bi man presume that all straight men have gay or bi sex. This site is a whole different kind of community than what you come across in the real world it's all about big dick which is what a lot of gay guys are drawn to so there's a lot more gay population here so we get to see and hear a lot more about their fantasies and what they like. There are a few hundred percent straight guys here who aren't afraid to admit that but there are plenty who are str8 which is different.

 

[328982]

as I don't drink alcohol… this won't be the good way to bring me to a woman…
no no no…
lol…
now… I watch so much straight porn that… … even if my attention is almost entirely drawn to the male actors… the fact of seeing these handsome guys enjoying fucking pussies… … begins seriously to make me feel to have a taste myself one of these days too…
straight porn is my visual alcohol…
lol
…………………...

horse… you've more or less reproached to tatooed goddess to bring on the table the big cock story in this other story of sexual fluidity… lol… as if it was a little off-topic...
now… that's yourself who use this argument to explain why a straight guy can apparently feel the need to experiment gay sex…

so tattoed goddess and you finally agree on the possible influence of penis size on sexual fluidity...
………………….
there can be a somewhat similarity within the gay world itself… with the bottoms/tops/versatile labels…
there are tops who clearly explain that they can exceptionnaly bottom if they meet a bigger dicked man...
I think this is close to what you and tattoed goddess [more indirectly and implicitly for her] described…

Not really. TG was suggesting that being attractive and well hung were desirable manly qualities while in other threads she's made out that penis size is totally unimportant I wasn’t saying that penis size was a prime motivator for a straight guy to try gay sex but that it isn't always the 'straight jock' who fucks the gay guy. Often it's the other way round if they are looking for novelty or a different dynamic.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

It's inaccurate of him but fits some other straight identified men going by this site. Wouldn’t you agree? Plenty of straight men seem open to the possibility of gay sex. I'm not in the business of second guessing their sexual identity. Really, all I'm saying is that even if it is inaccurate, it's not particularly rude and insulting. I suspect those who find the idea of being thought gay a grave insult (either themselves or on behalf of another) think of gay as an insult. I've yet to hear of a gay man insulted for being thought straight. Why? Because nobody thinks it's wrong to be straight.

Long answer made short: people need to stop being bigots about sexuality so that everyone could just use the label that is actually accurate.

Straight is supposed to describe heterosexual people. Which means ZERO interest in the opposite sex. Ever. But people don't want to come out because of how society is.

Humans are fucking stupid.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Why are you always making rude comments after the fact when everybody starts to get along you like to fight I've seen you so many times fighting these threads over the years. I could care less if a man is hung I'm only here cuz my husband is and it's cause problems but there so many gay guys who are obsessed with big dick and hopefully looking for a straight guy with a big dick that will give him a chance don't act like that's not the case I've read it a million times here at LPS G from gay men themselves. You're the dude who likes to think everybody's against gay and bi people every time someone posts in the men's for him about getting tired of all the gay threads put their trying to turn straight men towards other men You Jump Right In saying that there are discriminatory against gay men when really their preference is not to be gay they like women they like pussy they don't dig dick they don't like come they don't want balls in their face. Respect that or else you look just like a jerk who would give a woman extra drink so you can bring her home and take advantage of her later

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Not really. TG was suggesting that being attractive and well hung were desirable manly qualities while in other threads she's made out that penis size is totally unimportant I wasn’t saying that penis size was a prime motivator for a straight guy to try gay sex but that it isn't always the 'straight jock' who fucks the gay guy. Often it's the other way round if they are looking for novelty or a different dynamic.

I think you're twisting her words.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

What do you mean threads I've started on penis size? I haven't started any posts on penis size. Generally when I come here penis is the last thing I want to talk about or even care about for that matter. I'm here to have friendships with people mostly women in the women's forums

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

What do you mean threads I've started on penis size? I haven't started any posts on penis size. Generally when I come here penis is the last thing I want to talk about or even care about for that matter. I'm here to have friendships with people mostly women in the women's forums

He's just twisting your words to fit his narrative. It's his shtick.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

He never changes up his plays which is so easy to carry the ball to the finish line and leave him in the dust

 

[328982]

Why are you always making rude comments after the fact when everybody starts to get along you like to fight I've seen you so many times fighting these threads over the years. I could care less if a man is hung I'm only here cuz my husband is and it's cause problems but there so many gay guys who are obsessed with big dick and hopefully looking for a straight guy with a big dick that will give him a chance don't act like that's not the case I've read it a million times here at LPS G from gay men themselves. You're the dude who likes to think everybody's against gay and bi people every time someone posts in the men's for him about getting tired of all the gay threads put their trying to turn straight men towards other men You Jump Right In saying that there are discriminatory against gay men when really their preference is not to be gay they like women they like pussy they don't dig dick they don't like come they don't want balls in their face. Respect that or else you look just like a jerk who would give a woman extra drink so you can bring her home and take advantage of her later

I've not been rude to you, I've just put across a different point of view. I've not used words like “jerk” or any other personal insult as you have towards me. Now that you've got reinforcements, you feel bolder of course... Re penis size, that was an aside (and I didn't say you started any threads on that but you have written sarcastic things like “You're right Wally penis size matters that much to everybody on the planet... Yeah” which suggests you don't think it matters much). So why did you mention that your husband is well hung? What was the relevance?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

The relevance is he's a very good looking well hung man which is been the desire of many gay men over the course of his lifetime so yeah but it doesn't matter to me personally I threw it in there since we were talking about gay people and what gay guys are drawn to. He wouldn't fall for the six pack of beer trick trust me that's all it was about

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

And you don't know me very well I'll stand up for myself and anything that I believe in whether I'm the only one who agrees with me or not I don't need reinforcements to be brave to talk about what I feel is important I'm an outspoken individual in life and on the computer so reinforcements don't give me balls that I don't already have

 

[Mikehard9]

I think that sometimes bisexual men will assume and project their own beliefs onto others - assuming that ALL men must be bisexual because they are .
but thats just part of the bisexual mans personality, the arrogance and selfish way they cant accept other men think differently to them .

also , you cant label all porn actors as gay just because they do gay porn for money .... Even gay porn stars will sometimes perform with gay men they dont find attractive but do it because its a job .

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I've not been rude to you, I've just put across a different point of view. I've not used words like “jerk” or any other personal insult as you have towards me. Now that you've got reinforcements, you feel bolder of course... Re penis size, that was an aside (and I didn't say you started any threads on that but you have written sarcastic things like “You're right Wally penis size matters that much to everybody on the planet... Yeah” which suggests you don't think it matters much). So why did you mention that your husband is well hung? What was the relevance?

You were rude. You even used the snarky emoji face in one post.

Own it.

 

[328982]

it's insulting to have a gay or bi man presume that all straight men have gay or bi sex.

Well I certainly haven't assumed that. The phrase you objected to, ‘the only difference between a straight and gay man is a few beers’ obviously isn't accurate for all straight men. It is accurate for some. What I'm saying is that it's not a terrible insult imo. If it is then gay men are insulted every day of the week as it's often presumed they are straight or should be. Why do you think your brother felt pressure to deny his sexuality all those years?

 

[328982]

You were rude. You even used the snarky emoji face in one post.

Own it.

Oh come on. I've been very restrained and just argued my point of view.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Oh come on. I've been very restrained and just argued my point of view.

In my personal opinion, you are often rude when sharing your opinion. I'm perfectly ok with it if you feel the same way about me.

No biggie. I'm just arguing my point of view

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Well I certainly haven't assumed that. The phrase you objected to, ‘the only difference between a straight and gay man is a few beers’ obviously isn't accurate for all straight men. It is accurate for some. What I'm saying is that it's not a terrible insult imo. If it is then gay men are insulted every day of the week as it's often presumed they are straight or should be. Why do you think your brother felt pressure to deny his sexuality all those years?

He. Is very flamboyant in the traditional gay personality sense what people tend to think of when they think of a gay personality anyway he had nobody fooled it's up for my dad who was highly religious and kept trying to pray the gay away his whole life. Religious pressure from my dad put on to my brother made him make very poor decisions for his life because he wasn't able to be himself