I'm not so much dissatisfied with the length or appearance, my real problem is that because the skin is so long and the opening is so closed and tight, I cant properly slide the skin down over the head and down the shaft :X. To add to it, if i put a lot of time effort and lube to penis, i can in fact get the skin past the head but there's still a lot skin that wont go down with it. And to sum it up, the head of my penis is so sensitive that the slightest breeze or bead of sweat causes a lot of pain and stinging .__.
Don't misunderstand me, i do not want to have a circumcision, I just want the skin to go down normal and the head to not hurt when you so much as look at it. Its not too much of a problem when Im with my boyfriend as he doesn't seem to mind my handicap compared to his properly working foreskin. Ive looked it up and it seems that I have a condition called "phimosis." I know most people either choose daily stretching or circumcision to fix it, but there's a treatment called a "preputioplasty" that would in fact make the foreskin opening bigger so i could properly retract the skin. My only fear is that even with the surgery, the head will still be extremely sensitive, a handicap that my large amount of foreskin overcomes. Opinions are welcome and anticipated :3
OK, I understand your issue now. I dated a guy once with the same problem. Phimosis occurs in about 1% of uncut adult men. I would recommend you see your doctor. A prescription-only steroid cream (betamethasone) used for 4-6 weeks has an 87% success rate in treating adult phimosis (the rate is even higher when combined with stretching exercises). If your doctor is not informed about this treatment, ask for a referral to a urologist. The sensitivity of the glans should resolve with time once the phimosis is gone (it is also possible that the sensitivity is caused by inflammation or infection of the glans), something your doctor could treat. Preputioplasty (a/k/a "dorsal slit") and circumcision should only be performed if your phimosis doesn't resolve with medical treatment.
Best of luck, whatwillyou_see.
After my circumcision, the sensitivity of my glans dropped dramatically; too much, in fact. Blow jobs have never felt the same. There are ways to increase the sensitivity of the glans in circumcised men, through foreskin restoration techniques (
http://tlctugger.com/) or the Senslip product (
http://www.senslip.com/), but they require more dedication than I can muster.
In response to dxjnorto: I had myself circumcised essentially due to peer pressure: I saw only one other kid that had a foreskin growing up. At that age (17), it made me self-conscious in the locker room and I just wanted to look like all the other guys. Stupid reasons in retrospect, but what's done is done. Perhaps to compensate, I now only date uncut guys (!).
Brief history lesson: The US medical community has had a long-standing hostile attitude towards foreskin. Circumcision was popularized in the late 1800s as a way to prevent masturbation in boys. Rates further increased during and after the World War II (many uncut soldiers were ordered to be circumcised for "hygienic" reasons). The circumcision rate here peaked in the mid 1960's at nearly 90%. The American Academy of Pediatrics came out against routine infant circumcision in 1999 (
http://aappolicy.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/pediatrics;103/3/686). Most recent estimates put the current circumcision rate at about 55%. There is pressure in some quarters to again advocate for routine infant circumcision based on 2007 medical studies performed in Africa that showed a lower rate of HIV infection among circumcised men (some public health authorities have recommended that uncut adult men at high risk for HIV get circumcised as a preventative strategy). See
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/factsheets/circumcision.htm. I've always felt that circumcision was a permanent solution to a non-existent problem, but it's too soon to tell whether that research will change circumcision practices either within or outside the US.