Do you vocalize any pleasure sounds while doing your female partner?

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Just wondering what other straight males do while having sex with their female partners. Do you do any moaning or whatever sounds of gratification?

I know when I first started fucking I would sort of be serious and focused on the deed not really letting myself express any vocal joy in the moment. Then about 6 years ago I started just letting myself vocalize the pleasure I was feeling by telling my partner and letting pleasurable groans and moans escape my lips. What a game changer that was. I found it heightened the moment so much that I can't shut-up while fucking!:joy:
 

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I am most vocal when I am cumming, but I've always liked to let the woman I'm with know that it feels good to be in her mouth or vagina. That may be some words, or some moans of pleasure.

I too can be silent when 'concentrating' on what I am doing, but looking a woman in the eye and letting her know just how much she's turning me on makes both of us feel good!
 

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Depending on what is going on and with who.
I'll talk with the lady and tell her something about her or her body/parts and such. If we are both into them really get things going and it does seem to raise the intensity level of the sexual act.
 
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My wife and I have oddly enough gone in somewhat opposite directions over the years when it comes to vocalizations.

There was a time when the best she could hope for me was a grunt at the moment of climax and in fact, she used to tell me I sounded the same when I came as when I pushed out the last rep when benching.

Consequently, she used to be so vocal I had to remind her there were others in the house or even neighbors.

Now, while she has practically become a church mouse, I've become a little more willing to let my pleasure be known and issue groans, grunts and profane utterances throughout and prior to cumming.

Why the change I can't be sure. Maybe it's being more comfortable about being together so long I can let myself go more. Maybe because there is no longer the issue of others in the house (other than the cats who could care less). Maybe because I don't care if even the neighbors hear anymore since I never talk to and hardly see them anyway. But either way, I am less likely to make an effort to hide my feelings of pleasure than I used to.
 

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let's see:
"fuck"
"OMG"
"OMFG YES"
"yes"
"jesus christ yes"
"holy shit"
"holy fuck"
"wow"
"shit fuck shit omg fuck"
-and then so many sounds "mmmm" "hmmmm" "mmmmphhh"
-panting, moaning, sometimes gibberish, sometimes blended words like "jefuck" a mix of jesus and fuck or "shiifu" which is shit and fuck
-laughing of all kinds
-talking about the sex we're having at that moment with her, we communicate a lot during sex and I find when we do talk I last lots longer and I know more of what to do and how its going
-I ask "you good?" or " is this okay?" to make sure she's not accepting anything if its painful or irritating, I don't want her to just bear it to please me, its got to feel good for her or I don't want to do whatever it is that is not feeling good!
-whimpering sounds, almost crying-type sounds, and also "eeee!!" when its too sensitive to be touched but I want her to keep doing it ;)
-I'm audible the whole time, even while kissing I'm making some kind of sound through my breathing. I mean there are times I'm dead silent during all acts, but if a breath is coming out of my mouth there's sound attached.

When we make sound during sex the sensations can become heightened because we use sound to enhance what's happening and what we're feeling. Women coaches tell women to make sound deliberately while pleasuring themselves and especially during orgasm to increase the intensity of the orgasm. When I'm alone doing myself and am quiet my orgasms are not as powerful as they are when I'm making any noise at all while doing it.
 

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I’m vocal when my wife is giving me head. She’s good at that. As for her I found out she likes it when give her commands while fucking her. She really likes it when I start telling her to move her ass is Spanish.
I love this but I almost laughed a little at "her ass is Spanish" like she is Spanish in ethnicity, or she speaks Spanish or you talk to her in Spanish??!! Either way its a really fun comment to read!
 
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In, typo.
Oh ok, that makes better sense! And damn, Spanish language during sex always turns me on a lot especially from the woman saying it, I've always dreamed of an encounter with a Spanish-speaking woman, I think it'd make me go wild!
 

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We are both pretty vocal when we have sex. She is surely louder than i am, as she is from Turkish/Portuguese descent. But also I will groan when i fuck or receive a blowjob.
 

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I talk to my wife, tell her how much I enjoy her, how beautiful she is how I love her pussy and teats, the smell and taste of her pussy, etc. when she plays with me or gives me head, I tell her what feels good, I moan and groan, and certainly sigh and grunt when I cum. At that point there are a lot of "oh, fuck", and "feel so good" comments.
 

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I'm a little bit more vocal now, but it's very low key. I don't know if my particular experience is unique, but most of my life prior to marriage my friend group skewed mostly female, and when it came to male sexual vocalization, they made it into a double edged sword; if there was none there was complaint about him not expressing himself, or not feeling the "connection" during sex, however if he was the vocal sort, the instant she was displeased or angry with him, the vocalizations become a point of ridicule, evidence of his apparent weakness she can exploit.
I think the propensity for sex to be used(primarily against men) as a means of currency or control doesn't provide the safe space for many men to be comfortable enough to vocalize pleasure, and makes confident and quiet stoicism the frustrating sexual default most women will have to endure until their actions change.
 

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I think when jerking off as kids we trained ourselves to be quiet but I express myself now.

Yep. I thought men were supposed to be quiet in bed, so i would stifle my moans and would try to keep from being too loud during ejaculation. Met a girl who was very vocal in bed and she asked me if i enjoyed sex with her (i did), she couldn't tell because i was so quiet.

After that, i began to cut loose...i couldn't try to be quiet in bed now even if i wanted to.
 

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Oh, yeah, once the restraint of near mutism when in my parent's house was set apart in my new digs, I became extremely vocal and resonant with my female partner(s).
Uh, mostly groans and moans on the occasion, a few growls.
But the cumming was pure animalistic along with her pleasurable squeals.
Then the usual laughs and giggles .
Right up to the point where in my apartment the nabes were hammering my door telling me to shut up... during the day.
 

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Absolutely. I grunt a lot and groan, and my orgasms make me yell almost every time. That feeling of my testicles being pulled upwards right before ejaculation starts make me lose control
im exactly the same.
 
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