do you want kids?

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  1. treeoflife

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    Hey people, I was just wondering if any of you are planning on having kids or would like to have kids in the future. For me I love kids I have 2 little bro's 8 and 10 and love them too bits, don't get to see enough of them though.

    I can't wait to have my own (i.e with a female partner or adopt with a gay partner whichever happens), for some reason I am getting a bit upset lol when I see people carrying their babies around or pushing them in the mall makes me want them even more. Is that just weird for a 25yr old guy to be saying??
     
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    Not weird at all,

    I always wanted children. And even now in the "teenage phase" :mad:, I thank God each and every day for them :biggrin1:
     
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    Yeah, someday...
     
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    If I can find a willing partner!
     
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    ABSOLUTELY! I want to have kids. I can't wait to be a dad. Alas - I can't seem to find any women that actually want to have kids - with me. Sigh.
     
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    When I was a little girl the only thing I wanted to be when I grew up was a mom. I married right out of high school and got pregnant on my honeymoon. The marriage didn't last, but the baby is doing wonderfully!

    My daughter is in her final year of college and I couldn't be more proud. Ask my husband and he'll tell you he's her real dad because he survived the teen years with her!

    She's all the children I could ever want and she's beautiful.
     
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    I honestly can't wait to settle down and have a family... of course it'll be awhile, not going to complicate things while I'm still in school etc.
     
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    Yeah someday, 1 or 2 maybe even 3!
     
  9. midlifebear

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    Five years of teaching elementary school depleted me of my hormonal need to be a father. Nope -- or rather -- yes, I want children to leave me alone.
     
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    Most definitely someday....might be adopted or they might be my own.
     
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    yea, im 19 and i want em, so its not weird that a 25yo wants kids too
     
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    I want a kid or two, eventually. Which is a good thing since I'm an only child, so you know my mom wants me to have kids. :rolleyes:
     
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    I did but thanks to my bf I've got two step-kids who I adore and who've been in my life for 6 years so I'm more than happy.
     
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    definitely. i've gotta work on myself first though. ==
     
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    Definitely want kids. My partner has a son, so I'm a step dad through him, but I would not mind a few more :)
     
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    Got 3 and could not be happier.
     
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    I am a father which is BY FAR the most excellent aspect of my life.
     
  18. wallyj84

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    God no.

    Children are emotional and financial vampires. They take away all your money and leave you an emotionally damaged wreck. Not to mention they make your wife fat and her pussy loose.
     
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    Trav, if you are in a good relationship with the other parent, it enhances the experience of fatherhood. Putting your kid's needs ahead of your own can be difficult if you are not ready for that. When it is time, it will happen. Good luck.
    My daughter just turned 18 and she is the joy of my life.
     
  20. whatireallywant

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    I've never wanted kids, and have had my tubes tied. For me, part of it is that I simply don't have what people seem to refer to as a "maternal instinct". It just isn't part of me. I don't go gaga over other people's babies, or anything like that - I just don't care.

    Plus, I like to be able to come and go as I please, and have enough trouble with money without having to support someone else, and maybe most of all - I like peace and quiet!!!

    I just want to do a lot of what you do to make kids! :biggrin1:
     
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