Do you want to be a grower or a shower?

[David Lucaya]

So I was just having a conversation with my friends (both male and female) if it is preferable to have a grower or a shower and I thought it'd be an interesting discussion to have on here.

During the conversation it became clear to me that majority of the guys wanted to be showers because they felt that its easier to be more confident whipping out a dick that's already large. However females were split or even said both are enjoyable - showers are more impressive to look at and fun to play with even when soft they said, but it's a great surprise and fun to watch a grower. We didn't really discuss size but they all aluded to it being a big dick pretty much.

I myself am a grower. Soft I'm about 3.5 inches and grow to about 7.5 inches hard and I'm pretty content with that and didn't really give it much thought until joining this site honestly lol. I like being a grower though, always found it to be fascinating

So would you switch and if so why?
Or are you content with what you have? Why?

 

[LongDong28_]

I’m very much a grower and I’d rather my soft size be more representative.

 

[uncut7in]

I love it when guys see my small limp cock, then are impressed when it swells to a big throbbing erection.

 

[pdxjoe]

I would like to remain the shower and somewhat of a grower that I am it gives me the best of both options. This has served me well over the years no worries being nude in the locker room or nude beach.

 

[CUBE]

My buddy in college was a shower even though I had the bigger dick. He always packed a huge bulge and was the talk of many. He lived the life of a well hung man. It was stunning to see him nude.

 

[auncut10in]

I can't imagine how different my life would have been if I did not show a big soft dick. It has influenced my life since I was a kid. If you have read some of my adventures, then I. doubt most all of them would not have happened since it almost always started either by someone seeing me naked or someone seeing my soft dick bulging in my pants.

Would I trade it for a small dick that was a big grower? Not a chance. I have way too much fun.

Here is the link if you want to read what I am talking about.

 

[David Lucaya]

My buddy in college was a shower even though I had the bigger dick. He always packed a huge bulge and was the talk of many. He lived the life of a well hung man. It was stunning to see him nude.

I definitely imagine that to be true because we eat with our eyes for lack of better words.

 

[David Lucaya]

After reading through these response i'm wondering do you think being a grower vs. shower influences our personalities?

Im a grower as Ive said and Im definitely not a show off, more of an introvert and pretty much boring honestly lol... adventure makes me uncomfortable usually. Do you think it really does influence us or am I grasping for straws here?

 

[1IamSmall123]

Take a look at my pics..
Tiny soft
A bit above average hard.

I want To SHOW!

 

[ohiorod]

I would remain a shower even though I have previously indicated in other threads that sometimes embarrassed by my bulge in cycling shorts when I am in mixed company. I hang at about 5-6 inches most of the time and I add another 1.5-2.0 inches when I get firm. Despite the adjustments that are sometimes needed, I think i’d miss my buddy I’d he wasn’t hanging heavy . lol

 

[dude77007]

You know how important a first impression is.

 

[David Lucaya]

If you’ve ever been criticized then you will second George Costanza when he said “it’s all that it could be... and more!”

Thats the thing I don't think. Ive ever had a complaint about it which is why I've never really thought of it as really being either a problem or an advantage

 

[SuperGrower]

Unfortunately it doesn’t take much to make you feel bad when you’re young and shy.

 

[deleted1047683]

A thought-provoking question, but ultimately if I had to choose I’d remain a grower because although a shower gives you bragging rights a grower holds the element of surprise and I enjoy a positive reaction.

 

[SuperGrower]

I would like to be BOTH.

 

[David Lucaya]

The thing is i know personally that im small and the fact that most think im hung makes me feel even worse.

Ok I can understamd how that came to affect you in your developmental years, but for what it's worth... I think you have nothing to be worried about

 

[David Lucaya]

I can't imagine how different my life would have been if I did not show a big soft dick. It has influenced my life since I was a kid. If you have read some of my adventures, then I. doubt most all of them would not have happened since it almost always started either by someone seeing me naked or someone seeing my soft dick bulging in my pants.

Would I trade it for a small dick that was a big grower? Not a chance. I have way too much fun.

Here is the link if you want to read what I am talking about.

oh ive been a big fan of your adventures haha... good point I guess it would make for a good first impression and invite much intrigue.

 

[David Lucaya]

I feel the same way

I love it when guys see my small limp cock, then are impressed when it swells to a big throbbing erection.

 

[auncut10in]

After reading through these response i'm wondering do you think being a grower vs. shower influences our personalities?

Im a grower as Ive said and Im definitely not a show off, more of an introvert and pretty much boring honestly lol... adventure makes me uncomfortable usually. Do you think it really does influence us or am I grasping for straws here?

Can't speak for everyone, but as you know, it certainly does for me.

 

[SuperGrower]

If you’ve ever been criticized then you will second George Costanza when he said “it’s all that it could be... and more!”