AnonyMs: This thread is started in response to a comment where a female poster said something along the lines of "this is a place where I feel free." While I have many, many girlfriends, only one r/l girlfriend knows about my involvement on this board. And she only knows about it because after we lost Grandpa/Finedessert/Bob, I wanted someone to let you guys know if something happened to me. So do your real life friends know that you visit this site? What about boyfriends? And if you do not currently have a beau, if you had a beau, would you tell him about this site? Would it matter if he were well endowed or not as to whether you told him? As for me, this board gives me a place to express a side of myself I do not have other avenues to express. Plus, I find the insight into men absolutely fascinating and invaluable. If I had a man in my life, regardless of his endowment, I would steer him this way if I wanted him to have deep insight into me.