Does a good blow job or an orgasm from intercourse leave you more satisfied?

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I asked my guy why he likes intercourse better and he said "eye contact" and "It's more intimate."
 

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They're different for me, actually. A blow job is great, of course, not least in its visual impact and knowing that someone is doing this thing just for me, and it's nice just to be able to lie back and enjoy it. The orgasm from oral is beautiful, and it seems to build up more gradually than an orgasm from actual intercourse, and when it happens it seems a natural part of the build-up, if that makes sense.

Fucking is a much more active process; even if she's riding me while I lie on my back, I'm always rhythmically flexing and relaxing my "hip" muscles, even if I'm not actually moving my hips etc very much. My orgasms from intercourse are stronger, they feel more abrupt and they offer me much more "release" – incomparably good, really.
 

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I like to bookend great sex with great blowjobs. That's, of course, unless she's willing to let me fill her pussy with cum. I think of it like meat and potatoes, you can have one or the other, but put them together and you've got a satisfying meal.
 

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For me it is situational. I've had BJs where I got off, but it wasn't much more than that, and a few that have made me scream and see stars. I've had a few times where intercourse was like that, and other time where I just got off and that was it. I've also had a few times where I didn't get off and it felt amazing.
 

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Definitely from intercourse and if I knows she's cumming as well - hearing the sounds she makes, the way she moves and feeling her contracting along my length, sometimes even a 'sucking' sensation on my knob - it is the ultimate and I'll strain to give her every drop I've got.

Many times not been able to 'produce' from hand or blow jobs. I've seemed to be 'taking' and not 'giving' and 'giving' is important to me. In fact it is essential for complete satisfaction.
 

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My guy says that he strongly prefers vaginal sex over blowjobs and that he could go without blowjobs entirely if we had enough vaginal sex.

I'm the same way. If I'm getting good vaginal sex I can forgo the blowjobs. I won't be able to stop eating her, but I can take or leave being blown. But, if she's willing to try, I'll lie back and let her suck me. And I've cum from being blown - sometime just as powerful as vaginal sex.


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I've never orgasmed from a BJ, but I prefer getting BJs than intercourse.
 

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There are men who have a much stronger and satisfying orgasm after oral sex.
Others much prefer vigorous intercourse because they claim their orgasms are much more intense.

Which do you find usually makes you more satisfied? Do you shoot bigger loads from oral or intercourse?

Both.
 

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I have never cum from a blowjob. I enjoy it when my SO strokes and licks me, though.

I pump so my mid-shaft girth is usually 7"+ during sex. My SO's jaw quickly gets sore when she wants to go down on me. She can never blow me long enough to try and make me cum.

To orgasm, I prefer aggressively fucking my SO until she is quivering.
 

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BJ. In penetration sex I'm so aware of the performance and can't get into the feeling as much as a great BJ. But, I'm also fortunate to have a FB that really loves, in his words, to "make love" to my cock. He does this with no reciprocation and even sends me a "thank you" email later in the day. With him I can last 1/2 hour or more and the orgasm is mind-shattering.

There aren't too many bad BJs in this world. But this guy is the best.