I feel like more than 3/4 of the men that go to the gym are only interested in getting "big" for the sake of getting big. Not even so they can be healthy because they destroy their body by smoking, drinking and what not, but just to gain attention from women. Is this what women want? I know it takes much more than this to get with women but at first glance, does this approach work? Cuz I hate thess buff dudes who only workout their biceps, triceps, chests, just so women can gawk at them. I'm not fat or chubby or anything just a normally built guy. I'm 6'1 and around 210. I used to play sports in high school so im not out of shape, just not diesel like these superficial nitwits who think that all women want are muscle on top of muscle. Is this just a strategy that men think will garner them more attention from women, hence more opportunities to get with women? And does this work on women?