I was talking with a coworker on Friday. The conversation turned to a forum that he belonged to. When he asked if I belonged to any I paused for a moment before lying and saying no. Up until a few years ago I kept tropical fish and was active on some of the forums. If that was still the case I would not have had a problem mentioning it, but saying that I am active on one forum- LPSG would have been awkward. Would he figure that I was trying to brag, overly concerned with one body part, looking for attention, or something else? I guess that it is strange that this is the only forum I actively participate in. I have other interests and will read some posts- but I only post here. Anyhow, it got me wondering if anybody in your life knows that this is one of your stops while surfing. I would assume that most husbands, wives and S/Os probably know- but how about co workers, friends or acquaintances?