Right but you are gay so of course you won't have a problem with it. Straight males would have a problem with it. Lol also it is cold but you aren't going to get naked? Wouldn't you just put on more clothes if it was cold? You gay dudes who keep answer questions directed as black males crack me up.
Does anyone believe it's okay for two straight guys to sleep in the same bed naked
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Right but you are gay so of course you won't have a problem with it. Straight males would have a problem with it. Lol also it is cold but you aren't going to get naked? Wouldn't you just put on more clothes if it was cold? You gay dudes who keep answer questions directed as black males crack me up.
LOL.
You seem to think that I am unable to understand the thought process of a straight man. It is just as easy for me to say "is it okay for a gay man and a woman sleep together in bed, naked?" And you're argument seems to be that if you are naked, then it must be sexual. That's just ludicrous.
Your prudish upbringing is showing through. Being naked does not mean it is sexual or attraction. Being naked means that they wanted to get out of their clothing, for whatever reason.
And your counter argument that "they should put on more clothing", supports the other position. You tacitly acknowledge that there can be reasons they sleep together naked. Let's go to the "what-if's". What-if they have no second set of clothes, or their clothes are wet, or filthily and smelly, or needs to remain fully pressed (as for a wedding or a military event), etc..., etc..., etc...
It cracks me up how defensive you get or how you automatically assume that just because a man is gay means that he's sexually attracted or cares about your body.
Right how touching. Who gives a fuck if a gay male is attracted to this particular straight male or not. The point dumb dumb is the straight man isn't going to get in bed naked with another naked male period.
Again you are gay male, so who cares if you think a straight male would get in the bed naked with another naked male. You aren't straight first off so how would you know what a straight male would do. Second if you can't understand with straight means in the dictionary then you aren't bright enough to type to me . Blocked.
Just so we can all understand the basic core of this discussion consider the following.
Poster LutherCorps sees gay and straight as mutually exclusive items in the same way that a circle and a square are different geometric shapes. One shape can never be the other due to its specific fixed and measurable qualities.
However, the OP asked if it would be OK for two straight guys to sleep nude together. OK is hardly a specific and measurable quality. It is an opinion.
Human opinion is a constant variable. What a person feels or thinks from one day to the next is always a result of time and circumstance (unless they are unconscious).
Those who see this discussion as poster LutherCorps does have failed to understand the most basic first step in labeling. Only ideas (or things) with fixed and measurable qualities can be grouped and labeled.
Poster LutherCorps sees gay and straight as mutually exclusive items in the same way that a circle and a square are different geometric shapes. One shape can never be the other due to its specific fixed and measurable qualities.
However, the OP asked if it would be OK for two straight guys to sleep nude together. OK is hardly a specific and measurable quality. It is an opinion.
Human opinion is a constant variable. What a person feels or thinks from one day to the next is always a result of time and circumstance (unless they are unconscious).
Those who see this discussion as poster LutherCorps does have failed to understand the most basic first step in labeling. Only ideas (or things) with fixed and measurable qualities can be grouped and labeled.
@levi101 Agreed, and LutherCorps subscribes to the thought that being straight and gay are mutually exclusive in that they describe sexual attraction or a sexual act.
However, the act of being in the same bed at the same time without clothes is neither sexual attraction nor a sexual act. And, he denigrates and dismisses anyone who not straight as not being able to understand that basic fact.
Further, that he is SO convinced that being in bed without clothes MUST be a sexual act that he's willing to close his ears and shut his eyes to a discussion.
I was at least hoping to open his mind, a little, to the possibility that being in bed may mean nothing more than wanting to sleep or that being naked may have nothing to do with sex.
I failed it that.
However, the act of being in the same bed at the same time without clothes is neither sexual attraction nor a sexual act. And, he denigrates and dismisses anyone who not straight as not being able to understand that basic fact.
Further, that he is SO convinced that being in bed without clothes MUST be a sexual act that he's willing to close his ears and shut his eyes to a discussion.
I was at least hoping to open his mind, a little, to the possibility that being in bed may mean nothing more than wanting to sleep or that being naked may have nothing to do with sex.
I failed it that.
Never mind that the question is directed at "anyone" in an open forum. You wrote "black" there when you meant "straight". Elsewhere you associate "white" and "gay". Can you explain why you've conflated these categories? What's seems to be at stake is your masculine identity and sense of worth.
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Two occasions come to mind. The first one was with a friend when I was 17 years old. We slept together in his bed after drinking all night. All we did was sleep but in the morning he woke up hard and pulled back the sheet to show me his hard cock. We both slept naked but we were drunk and I didn’t have anything else to wear. He then told me, if I wanted to suck his cock I could and he wouldn’t tell. I had never sucked a cock before so I declined. He had a really nice cock, if I knew how to suck cock, I thing I would have done him.
Another time I went to Vegas with a group of people from work. Reservations were challenging because we booked late. I was told I would be sharing a room with a guy and sleeping in the same bed. I would have preferred my own room but said ok; he was a nice guy. This time around I was more sexually experienced but the thought of sex never entered my mind.
I thought this guy was cool but he really wasn’t. He was average in looks and carried a few extra pounds; not my idea of a guy I would engage in any sex with. So here we are in the room getting ready for dinner and as he is getting undressed he tells me, “not to get any ideas”. I was a little shocked and asked, “What ideas?” So he strips naked and grabs a towel then goes to the shower. Honestly, sex with him hadn’t entered my mind and after seeing him naked with his tiny cock; the thought made me sick. After that, there was no further conversation of anything sexual happening.
Another time I went to Vegas with a group of people from work. Reservations were challenging because we booked late. I was told I would be sharing a room with a guy and sleeping in the same bed. I would have preferred my own room but said ok; he was a nice guy. This time around I was more sexually experienced but the thought of sex never entered my mind.
I thought this guy was cool but he really wasn’t. He was average in looks and carried a few extra pounds; not my idea of a guy I would engage in any sex with. So here we are in the room getting ready for dinner and as he is getting undressed he tells me, “not to get any ideas”. I was a little shocked and asked, “What ideas?” So he strips naked and grabs a towel then goes to the shower. Honestly, sex with him hadn’t entered my mind and after seeing him naked with his tiny cock; the thought made me sick. After that, there was no further conversation of anything sexual happening.
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It's happened a few times, especially after a night of drinking. Only one time was sexual, but because it was a threesome situation with me, a girl and him. I don't think it necessarily means you're gay. You may just not have any hangups about being naked and close around others, which is perfectly fine.
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The read is long, and when you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with...
Yes it is okay. Same with two guys pissing together. two straight guys have their own privacy, but for sure they are less concious about the environment when they are with other straight guys, whether they are clothed, naked or nude. I know this is same thing for girls, and gays. Reason why I agree for the 3rd and 4th gender to have their own washroom. For Bisexual, if you are discrete, then go to straight gender washroom. If you are 100000% Obvious, go to 3rd gender's washroom. You are obvious anyway.
Look, years ago hotels and beds were in short supply. Sometimes, you'd have 3 or 4 guys sleeping in the same bed at the same time. Nothing happened. It should be no big deal. I don't sleep in the same bed with other people because I have a super bad back. If they jar the bed by even turning, it hurts me. Also, I don't like people right up against me when I sleep. I don't snuggle in my sleep with lovers.
Sheesh. People are so closed minded, and ignorant. If they'd open their mind, the world would become an amazingly beautiful place.
I don't have sex with dudes (don't have it with women either). I don't want to have sex with dudes. It does not mean I won't share a bedroom, locker room, shower room with a dude. It doesn't mean I don't want a hug from a dude. A big ole bear giving me a long bear hug helps me feel better, and happier. We could all use some platonic hugs from guys who love us. I don't wanna lay him
It doesn't mean I can't see a man as having an attractive or sexy attribute. I think the man in levi101's avatar has an amazingly hot butt. I wish mine looked like that but it doesn't mean I want to have sex with him.
Lighten up and live.
I don't have sex with dudes (don't have it with women either). I don't want to have sex with dudes. It does not mean I won't share a bedroom, locker room, shower room with a dude. It doesn't mean I don't want a hug from a dude. A big ole bear giving me a long bear hug helps me feel better, and happier. We could all use some platonic hugs from guys who love us. I don't wanna lay him
It doesn't mean I can't see a man as having an attractive or sexy attribute. I think the man in levi101's avatar has an amazingly hot butt. I wish mine looked like that but it doesn't mean I want to have sex with him.
Lighten up and live.
You're too eager. You know they are attracted to bad boys who don't want them.
Im just curious why would a straight male sleep naked in a bed with you? Like i wouldnt see why a women would sleep naked in the same bed with me? Like???
I slept totally naked with two straight guys and there was nothing sexual about it.
A friend and I were backpacking on a rigorous trail in the high mountains. It was spring and a freak hailstorm hit. We pitched our tents for shelter and soon heard someone call out. It was an ill-prepared hiker in a cotton t-shirt and denim cutoffs. All his gear was drenched and he was shaking uncontrollably. We had enough backcountry experience to know he was hypothermic. Without missing a beat, we had him to strip off his wet clothing, got naked ourselves and bundled up in our dry sleeping bags together in one tent.
We had no hesitation in doing this. It may well have saved his life. Was there anything remotely sexual? No. It was nothing short of terrifying. His body was colder than any living thing I'd felt before or since.
He recovered and the next day we convinced him to stick with us and hike out to a nearby town where he could get some synthetic gear. The number of stories I have of clueless hikers is astonishing, but this one was nearly tragic.
A friend and I were backpacking on a rigorous trail in the high mountains. It was spring and a freak hailstorm hit. We pitched our tents for shelter and soon heard someone call out. It was an ill-prepared hiker in a cotton t-shirt and denim cutoffs. All his gear was drenched and he was shaking uncontrollably. We had enough backcountry experience to know he was hypothermic. Without missing a beat, we had him to strip off his wet clothing, got naked ourselves and bundled up in our dry sleeping bags together in one tent.
We had no hesitation in doing this. It may well have saved his life. Was there anything remotely sexual? No. It was nothing short of terrifying. His body was colder than any living thing I'd felt before or since.
He recovered and the next day we convinced him to stick with us and hike out to a nearby town where he could get some synthetic gear. The number of stories I have of clueless hikers is astonishing, but this one was nearly tragic.
