Does anyone believe it's okay for two straight guys to sleep in the same bed naked

[Itsmeandyou]

I would do it if I had to but I wouldn't tell anyone.

Funny story from two years ago. Went to a concert 4 hours away with a friend, his wife and his obnoxious drunken brother. I was asked to come because the two guys didn't have licenses and his wife hated driving in big cities. I was to get a room to share with the brother and a ticket to the concert. When we arrived in town, rooms were hard to come by and very expensive and so we ended up in one room with two double beds. My friend and his wife naturally were in one bed and I would have to share the other with the drunk obnoxious brother. He was wearing a skimpy pair of underwear and lifting up the sheets and patting my side of the bed while saying "come to bed, I've been waiting for this moment...". I knew that he would doubtlessly do stuff like grab my ass or hug me to get a laugh although he was totally straight. Although I had never been naked with my friend or his brother, and despite the presence of his wife, I said "okay, I'm coming to bed" stripped naked and hopped into bed right up against him. His bluff having been called, he immediately pushed me away and I had no further problems. Nobody believed I would do something like that.

Good story.

 

[StewartW]

Me personally I don't see anything wrong with it if you are comfortable with the person and its no sexual connotation behind it .what are your thoughts and or experiences?

Better if was me and a curious Str8 dude

 

[deleted15807]

Straight guys sleep in the same beds often--I would think the "naked" part would be a no go though . . .

Yeah two platonic blokes just don't "end up" naked in bed together

 

[buzzrider7]

The bigger question would be about a straight guy sleeping naked in the same bed with a gay guy. . .

I shared the bed once with a straight buddy I was sexually attracted to and we slept naked. We had been hot tubbing and hanging out naked all evening, so we just went to bed that way, not totally sober either. If I remember correctly, he let me cuddle him a bit, which felt awesome. I think he trusted I wouldn't push the boundaries beyond his comfort zone and so he let his guard down for me. I still think of it a lot even though it was like seven years ago.

 

[iruleyou]

This question is funny. Of course gay or bisexual guys will say it is no big deal and it isn't a big deal if you are gay or bisexual. But a straight male and I mean straight. Straight as in the definition in the dictionary male is going to sleep butt naked in a bed with another butt naked man.

 

[buzzrider7]

I'll add that as far as I know, my buddy is dictionary-straight. We've talked a lot about sexuality over the years and he has said he has zero interest in doing anything sexual with a guy (but that if he ever was curious, he would give me first dibs). That said, he slept butt naked with me butt naked. I still think that's different than TWO dictionary-straight guys sleeping naked together. In that case, I agree with iruleyou. Probably not going to happen outside of gay porn and gay fantasy.

I shared the bed once with a straight buddy I was sexually attracted to and we slept naked. We had been hot tubbing and hanging out naked all evening, so we just went to bed that way, not totally sober either. If I remember correctly, he let me cuddle him a bit, which felt awesome. I think he trusted I wouldn't push the boundaries beyond his comfort zone and so he let his guard down for me. I still think of it a lot even though it was like seven years ago.

 

[iruleyou]

I'll add that as far as I know, my buddy is dictionary-straight. We've talked a lot about sexuality over the years and he has said he has zero interest in doing anything sexual with a guy (but that if he ever was curious, he would give me first dibs). That said, he slept butt naked with me butt naked. I still think that's different than TWO dictionary-straight guys sleeping naked together. In that case, I agree with iruleyou. Probably not going to happen outside of gay porn and gay fantasy.

Yeah, well a lot of males will say they are straight and then turn around and say they have sex with males. So just because a male says he is straight doesn't mean he is.

 

[Dave NoCal]

Many years ago, about a year after college, I was traveling and landed at some college friends' house. They already had another couple and a single guy staying over. Come bed time, everyone went to bed and I wound up with the single guy who I have no question was straight. I was gay but not out and I believe he assumed I was straight. Anyway, he just peeled off all his clothes and went to bed so I did too. We slept.

 

[buzzrider7]

If he slept naked, then he clearly wasn't straight and was likely secretly having sex with men all the time.

Many years ago, about a year after college, I was traveling and landed at some college friends' house. They already had another couple and a single guy staying over. Come bed time, everyone went to bed and I wound up with the single guy who I have no question was straight. I was gay but not out and I believe he assumed I was straight. Anyway, he just peeled off all his clothes and went to bed so I did too. We slept.

 

[Dave NoCal]

If he slept naked, then he clearly wasn't straight and was likely secretly having sex with men all the time.

Haha!

 

[deleted15807]

Huuum actually why does this three year old thread keep getting revived? Is this still a thing?

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Yeah two platonic blokes just don't "end up" naked in bed together

Well, if the temperature drops to life threatening levels and exchanged body heat is the only option to keep from freezing to death, 2 straight fellas may end up less than clothed in a sleeping bag together... But that's the only kind of circumstance I can think of

 

[buzzrider7]

Well, I still hope that straight men will sleep naked together, so I guess it is. But, I was not the one who revived it.

Huuum actually why does this three year old thread keep getting revived? Is this still a thing?

 

[Shepardson]

The bible says two men ought not to lay together.

- can't believe nobody's brought that up yet

 

[deleted15807]

Well, if the temperature drops to life threatening levels and exchanged body heat is the only option to keep from freezing to death, 2 straight fellas may end up less than clothed in a sleeping bag together... But that's the only kind of circumstance I can think of

Truth be told orientation can be taken out two people naked in a bed together just doesn’t “opps happen”. Same bed OK. Naked too that’s a huge exhibit in The Museum of The Hard To Believe.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

The bible says two men ought not to lay together.

- can't believe nobody's brought that up yet

Oh I'm sure someone has. This is page how many now...?

 

[Dave NoCal]

Truth be told orientation can be taken out two people naked in a bed together just doesn’t “opps happen”. Same bed OK. Naked too that’s a huge exhibit in The Museum of The Hard To Believe.

Okay, call me a liar.

 

[ManchesterTom]

The bible says two men ought not to lay together.

- can't believe nobody's brought that up yet

It says nothing about to naked me standing up together and rubbing together.

 

[1101550]

I'm not homophobic, and I'm comfortable with my sexuality, but this scenario would never happen.

 

[buzzrider7]

We could prohibit everyone from posting about topics that have already been covered ad nauseam. But I think that is pretty much 100% of the content on this site these days. Are there any topics left that have not already been covered... to death? Me thinks not...

Oh I'm sure someone has. This is page how many now...?