I agree it does help to know the giver is enjoying giving you oral as well. Another problem I find with some is they think just bobbing up and down is the only way to give a blowjob. Take your time, I'm not in a rush, enjoy it, lick it, let it melt in your mouth with your tongue moving around a bit if you like. Everyone has their own methods, but if you are into it, I love nothing more than receiving a nice long slow blowjob. Of course the tempo can be picked up if you want. Take your time. My dick is for your pleasure. Take a break if your mouth is getting tired. Suck it soft if you like and bring me back. Take a break and if you want to come back to it while it's still wanting you to and hard, I won't mind that either. It's there for your taking. I do agree with someone above that said when I'm about to "blow a load" to take it as far back as you can without choking and suck it right down your throat. I honestly wouldn't mind that at all! Stay with it if you want while it goes down, suck it some more but gently, clean out "the pipes". I absolutely LOVE getting blown!