Does anyone doesn't like blowjobs that much?

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I hope one day you will have the complete bliss of a realllllly good blow job. It is a back-and-forth though. Maybe you just have not found the right person for the job yet :)
I absolutely love to have my cock sucked!!! I am fortunate to have had a number of partners who are very skilled and eager to please.
The idea that some men do not like bjs is crushing to me…I mean, look at my name…I am kinda all in.
But also maybe I can identify because receiving oral is totally NOT my favorite thing, but maybe more so because I realllly enjoy giving a cock the 100% full attention it deserves. I prefer a non-69 position for giving the “oral experience” because I need the room to work all the angles.
i love having my cock sucked and my favorite way to cum is when my cock is being deep throated repeatedly.
 

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Can you explain what you mean about it being a “back and forth”? I’d like to hear more about that. ;)
I mean that the other person plays a role too. Energy and power passes back and forth. We “givers” take our cues from the “getters” in any “oral experience” and that is what it is really all about. Sharing power… taking power and giving it back for pleasure (hopefully).
 

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My hubby has a much lower sex drive than me. Thankfully he recognises this and loves to give me a blowjob to help me out. I get at least 2 a week, sometimes more (this is in addition to when he is in the mood and we fuck our brains out).

Of the partners I have had over the years, he is probably the most talented cock sucker I have experienced... absolutely bliss.

I used to enjoy giving them as well, but now that I have jaw problems, it is more of a chore. That is fine with him as his sex drive being low means that I don't get called on to suck all that much.
 
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I enjoy getting oral. Because I like to laid back and watch someone sucking my cock and seeing how much they enjoy it. I can get sucked forever without cumming, but it keeps me on the edge.
I like to call that "riding the waves".....key is to fully relax and allow yourself to ride them.
 
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I agree it does help to know the giver is enjoying giving you oral as well. Another problem I find with some is they think just bobbing up and down is the only way to give a blowjob. Take your time, I'm not in a rush, enjoy it, lick it, let it melt in your mouth with your tongue moving around a bit if you like. Everyone has their own methods, but if you are into it, I love nothing more than receiving a nice long slow blowjob. Of course the tempo can be picked up if you want. Take your time. My dick is for your pleasure. Take a break if your mouth is getting tired. Suck it soft if you like and bring me back. Take a break and if you want to come back to it while it's still wanting you to and hard, I won't mind that either. It's there for your taking. I do agree with someone above that said when I'm about to "blow a load" to take it as far back as you can without choking and suck it right down your throat. I honestly wouldn't mind that at all! Stay with it if you want while it goes down, suck it some more but gently, clean out "the pipes". I absolutely LOVE getting blown!
 

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I kind of equate oral to going to a nice restaurant

The waiter / waitress brings you water or something to drink, bread, salad , soup or other complementary appetizers. Yes I enjoy the appetizers, but I am really there to enjoy the meal / dish I ordered. :cool:
 
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I've had friends tell me they can't cum from BJs, and in each case it's been a dude who's fallen victim to the so-called "death grip." I love getting my dick sucked, and sometimes it feels better than others. For me, a big part of it is getting out of my own head (i.e., not worrying about reciprocating, am I taking too long, etc.) The best BJs are when I can just clear my head and enjoy it.
 

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I've had friends tell me they can't cum from BJs, and in each case it's been a dude who's fallen victim to the so-called "death grip." I love getting my dick sucked, and sometimes it feels better than others. For me, a big part of it is getting out of my own head (i.e., not worrying about reciprocating, am I taking too long, etc.) The best BJs are when I can just clear my head and enjoy it.
It's always up front that I was there to drop my pant, get blown and leave. But I always make sure the sucker gets enough before I cum unless I am in a hurry.
 

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It's an enthusiasm thing; I'm convinced there are very few women that would do so on a non transactional basis.
I've come across 1 woman in my entire life that could make me cum soley from head, all others, my wife included,require some other sort of stimulation in order to get the job done.
To be honest unless you display aspects of oral fixation outside of sex(objects in the mouth, always eating lollipops,still sucking thumbs, etc., chances are your head game is patronizing and trash overall.
 

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I absolutely love to have my cock sucked!!! I am fortunate to have had a number of partners who are very skilled and eager to please.

i love having my cock sucked and my favorite way to cum is when my cock is being deep throated repeatedly.
I had a GF in college that lived next door. She craved my cock and would come over or call me at all hours whenever she needed some meat. She would lick and suck my cock for hours. She loved to fuck as well, but when it was time to cum she wanted it in her mouth most of the time. She was excellent at lying on her back, head tilted back, and letting me fuck her throat hard until I cum!!!
 

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I guess I have been very fortunate then because I have had many women suck me off and they seemed to like it.
Let me rephrase, I've probably come across a lot of fellatiously inclined women, but a lot of the accompanying behaviors they tend to have tend to turn me off... so for instance the thumb suckers...typically there are other aspects of childish behaviors present beyond just that. I've also come across quite a few women that have tried to weigh their fallacious skills and enthusiasm to offset their lack of sexual skill, some aesthetic deficiency, or the like. I think on a balance of probability there are far more desirably normal men that are cunilingually inclined than desirably normal women that like to suck dick, much less be any good at it.
Plus I think women get an advantage in that the "quality" they offer more often than not is the opportunity itself, wherein a man's "quality offering" has to weigh against the inevitable opportunities available to her.
 

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I can’t even begin to comprehend how anyone can say they don’t like getting bkowjobs. It’s like trying to understand a language I don’t speak
It's along the same lines as many women whom don't enjoy PIV sex because they've never had a good experience with it. It's not heard too often because men generally have an opportunistic sex drive, wherein a bad or unfulfilling sexual experience is considered better than no opportunity at all.
 
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