Does anyone doesn't like blowjobs that much?

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As far as receiving….. I have zero interest. My ex wife was extremely good at it. But I just had zero interest. My wife now is ok… but I don’t care because I’m not into really. I’d rather have sex and feel HER

now…. As far as giving… it’s a huge turn on for me to give head. Possibly one of my biggest turn ons
 
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I 100% love sucking dick but man, I absolutely hate having blowjobs performed on me. I have a super sensitive dick and most guys are just hyper-aggressive while sucking to the point where it actually hurts, I have the same problem with handjobs.

Most guys just aren't as good at it as they think they are (not me of course, my blowjobs are top notch )
 

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Well they are those who give amazing blow jobs and I could never have enough of those but thet are also crappy blow jobs that are not even as good as jerking off.
 

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I'm much too girthy to get a great BJ but I do like the attention... usually its a lot of licking. I have to mention that I've had one lady that had a very special gift and boy she was something else... Never in my life has any partner taken more than half of my penis and this one deep throated me on several occasions!
 
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I use to not care for them. My first wife gave me two in 18 years of being together and wouldn’t let me cum either time. Her skills were not good and I didn’t enjoy it.

when my current wife and I started seeing each other I told her I didn’t enjoy them. She proved me wrong. I don’t get them that often but they are worth it when I do.
 

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If blow jobs don't appeal to you much, I'm guessing you're circumcised. There isn't any reason it shouldn't be mind blowing if you still have all the nerve endings you were born with.
Personally speaking, I'm circumcised and my dick is incredibly sensitive. Part of the reason why I don't enjoy getting head is because a lot of guys just aren't as good at it as they think they are.
 
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To each his/her own. No right or wrong answer here, but fuck, when my wife goes down on me I cum every single time. Granted how great or just average it feels has a lot to do with my horniness at the time she does me. I am fortunate that my wife loves blowing me, holding my cock in her hands and mouth, and doesn't stop even after she has finished swallowing all of it. The fact she loves to swallow is a super turn on for me. That she loves doing it, not just doing it because I want it or she feels she has to, is also a turn on. On the other hand, if she didn't swallow it would take away from the whole thing. A few times she had me blow my wad on myself rather then in her mouth, and she followed it up by licking all of my thick, white cum off from my body. I have precum dripping down my shaft and onto my leg just writing this.
 

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If blow jobs don't appeal to you much, I'm guessing you're circumcised. There isn't any reason it shouldn't be mind blowing if you still have all the nerve endings you were born with.
I’m intact and don’t enjoy blowjobs. Had good ones from men and women but it literally does nothing for me. I like to please. As someone else above said, literally everything else on me being serviced is great but BJs just have never gotten me going
 

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It's an enthusiasm thing; I'm convinced there are very few women that would do so on a non transactional basis.
I've come across 1 woman in my entire life that could make me cum soley from head, all others, my wife included,require some other sort of stimulation in order to get the job done.
To be honest unless you display aspects of oral fixation outside of sex(objects in the mouth, always eating lollipops,still sucking thumbs, etc., chances are your head game is patronizing and trash overall.
Nothing could be further from the truth in my own experience. Have some of the women been better at sucking than others? Sure, but a mismatch in the size of her mouth, and my 7" by 6" cock might be a factor. But, every woman I've been with has been enthusiastic and 'into" giving me oral stimulation, so I have enjoyed every oral encounter I've ever had.
After 6 inch girth blow jobs are pointless, most mouths can handle 5.5 inch girth max
At 7" by 6" my girth has kept me from being fully deepthroated but not impeded any woman from giving me great blowjobs. While some have only been able to get 3 inches of me in their mouths, mot have get to 4 inches on some stroke. I've been fortunate enough to have 2 women that could easily take 5 inches and one that can get into the 5-6 inch zone (which is fucking amazing!) I married the woman who has taken me the deepest and btw, she also swallows with a smile.
If blow jobs don't appeal to you much, I'm guessing you're circumcised. There isn't any reason it shouldn't be mind blowing if you still have all the nerve endings you were born with.
I'm circumcised and believe me, I feel sensation over every bit of my cock when a woman goes down on me, especially when they go as deep as they can.
 

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I have a super sensitive dick and most guys are just hyper-aggressive while sucking to the point where it actually hurts, I have the same problem with handjobs.

I get that. Everyone is different. Communication is important, though. Let them know how sensitive you are and I bet you'll eventually find someone who will blow your mind, as well... :rolleyes: ;)
 
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I LOVE getting blow jobs...for about 2 minutes tops. After that the sensation becomes completely insufficient and I don't really feel much of it. I like being more active during sex as well so I get bored just sitting there receiving. Also if I've been playing with my dick or had it played with don't even bother with the bj...I'm already too desensitized.
 
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I completely don’t understand this. I get that everyone is different and this is in no way meant as an insult, but maybe you just haven’t had the right person doing it. I’ve been fortunate that I’ve had some very talented women share their oral skills with me.

I think biggest key has been enthusiasm of the giver. If she (or he) really doesn’t want to be down there, then you’re gonna get a sub-par blowjob.

Skill and experience matter, too, for sure but that’s more of matter of getting a really good BJ and an excellent oral experience.
I knew this was going to come out, so here's my answer :)
I've received at least 15 different it will be the best blowjob of your life type of blowjobs, by different guys Incredibly enthusiastic, perfect technique, with that self-confident cock-sucking grin... Everything was perfect. Guys who could easily get my dick in their throat, licking my balls... I've really tried everything, from really talented guys.

But what I'm missing is the fantasy. I like the feeling, but I typically close my eyes and imagine that I'm fucking him. I'm an ass guy, I don't know how to say it... If the blowjob is paired with any type of assplay, it makes it a much better experience for me. If the guys sucking my dick is on his knees, wearing a thong and pushing his ass out... That's where my eyes will go. If I can finger his ass while he deepthroats me... Much much easier orgasm for me! If he moans on my dick every time I spank him... Huge turn on.

The thing is, a lot of blowjob kings and queens do not like assplay at all, which is fair. But then it's not fun for me, I don't like spanking a guy who doesn't feel pleasure with it. I kindly explain that we're not a match sexually, but then they go "oh but it's just because no one sucked your dick as good as I do", and there we go again :D
 
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As a follow-on to my previous post, I had a past relationship of 7+ years where oral sex and foreplay was a very important part part of our sex life. (Unlike my wife where 5 minutes of foreplay and she's begging for me to get my dick inside her now!) In that past relationship, she actually liked going down on me and I absolutely loved when she did. Out of around 700 times we had sex, all but a few dozen times involved oral sex on each other. I enjoyed every single one of those times she went down on me, whether it was for 1 minute or 5 minutes.

With every woman I've been with, if I was starting out flaccid, they all got me rock hard very quickly once they started sucking on me. If I was already hard, then the pleasure of their lips and tongues, combined with stroking with their hands always ensured I was maxxed out, felt great, and was absolutely ready to fuck when we transitioned to intercourse.

Does a skilled blowjob feel better than intercourse? No, but it is definitely a different sensation that is incredibly enjoyable all on its own.