Does anyone else find the concept of cuckholding completely retarded?

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  1. UpwardCurve

    UpwardCurve New Member

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    I am so sick of hearing from guys who get off by NOT having sex with their wife while letting her get pounded by some other dude (if that makes any sense..).

    I think those guys are complete retards, and should not have gotten married in the first place....

    i really dont think they should have children for that matter either....

    sorry, i just find the whole concept ridiculous....
     
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    I concur with the OP.
     
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    why are they even together in the 1st place?
     
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    I have to disagree with the OP. If a husband and wife are willing to have an open relationship, who are we to judge? Half the men on this fucking planet cheat on their lovers anyway, human beings aren't designed for monogamy, that's some faux idealism that's been so engrained into our minds that anything else is deemed unholy and devilish.

    If they're being safe, more fucking power to 'em. I'd rather them have an open relationship and be honest with each other than to have the husband or wife sleeping with other people behind their spouse's back.
     
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    I find the whole concept crazy myself. How the the husband feel that is letting his wife get "cuckolded" (and I'm putting that politely) feel while he sits off to the side or maybe participates? She may even make sounds that HE never hears thereby increasing his anxiety performance when he has her to himself.

    And frankly, to give your wife away to another man is bad enough; to watch her get pounded is spineless.
     
  6. marleyisalegend

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    What's the difference between a married couple cuckolding and three single people having a threesome? Does that wedding ring double as a chastity belt?:confused: It's just fucking sex, he's not beating her, he's not cheating on her, he's not stealing from her, it's two consenting adults.
     
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    Seems to (as a rule) be more about humiliation than anything as far as I can tell. How that doesn't spill over into becoming genuinely mentally abusive is too much of a fine line for my comfort zone. Not my thing at all.

    I suppose you could classify it as "open relationship" Marley but to me a swinging or polyamorous relationship can be quite a positive thing and far removed from a cuck one where wifey goes out and gets all the fun!
     
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    I know it's a morbid way of empowering black men, but I personally feel that it's degrading and a send back to the "massuhs" secret fantasy of watching his buck defile his wife.

    Okay, sorry for going "there" but I only did that because 90% of all cuckolding porn is centered around "White chick/black dick."
     
  9. No_Strings

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    Then simply add 'cuckolding' to the list of things that you don't understand but will behave extremely narrow-mindedly and judgementally towards despite not comprehending it well enough to hold a truly valid opinion on the subject, as evidenced by your original post and other(s) displayed sporadically across this forum.
     
  10. marleyisalegend

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    Don't apologize yngjock u have a very good point.
     
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    You know the lady is thinking to herself, "What a ridiculous fuck-tard; I get hammered anytime by anyone I want, he watches, cleans my bulls cum out of me, and in some cases even raises my bull's offspring". What an idiot.
     
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    Not my deal, but who am I to knock someone else's desires.
     
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    It could well work like that in a lot of cases but, in the same way dom/sub as a lifestyle works for a small select group, I can see how a guy who gets off on humiliation and a woman who gets off on doling it out COULD work, but it ain't my cuppa t!
     
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    Yeah! Cuckolding is stupid, as well as any exploring of one's sexuality - sex should be done between a man and woman, missionary, for kids... everything else is stupid, and the people who perform those acts should not be allowed to bred.

    Do you realize how stupid you sound when you choose to judge others, especially when you show no understanding of the concept at all. Cuckold's WANT to be humiliated, they WANT their wives to make sounds they can never hear from her otherwise; cuckolds usually choose the man themselves, they don't just let their wife fuck whoever they want, and it's usually a loving relationship, where the woman may or may not be comfortable with the idea - hardly, "What a ridiculous fuck-tard; I get hammered anytime by anyone I want, he watches, cleans my bulls cum out of me, and in some cases even raises my bull's offspring."

    Keep your opinions to yourself - you don't like it, don't do it, simple as that.
     
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    I don't get cuckolding either. I don't care if people do it, it just wouldn't be for me. If I'm in a relationship, I would prefer for it to be a monogamous one. It's just what I feel is best for me.

    I do have one question about it though, what would happen if the bull got the woman pregnant? Who would raise the child? I've always wondered that about cuckolding relationships.
     
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    That's when everybody finds out if it was consensual humiliation or not I guess...
     
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    I don't really get it. I don't see how any man could have any self respect by doing that. But in the end I guess it really is none of my business.
     
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    Perhaps most of you excepting the three who knew it has nothing
    to do with the participants being "retarded and stupid" should talk with someone who understands the desires of the men and women involved befored making such ridiculous assumptions about anothers bedroom activities?!
    cigarbabe:saevil:saevil:
     
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    I disagree with the OP. Some people like seeing their partner have pleasure and some people are more into their own pleasure. Maybe the people that don't understand cuckolding are the ones that are only into their own pleasure. I can understand someone being so in love with their wife to be willing to do anything to make her happy, including letting her get fucked by another guy.
     
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    After talking to a guy who is in a cuckold marriage i realize it is one of the most unselfish things a man could do. Sure he gets off on seeing his wife getting fucked by another man but he is prepared to put aside his own ego for her sexual satisfaction.
     
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