Does anyone else find the concept of cuckholding completely retarded?

[Principessa]

I disagree with the OP. Some people like seeing their partner have pleasure and some people are more into their own pleasure. Maybe the people that don't understand cuckolding are the ones that are only into their own pleasure. I can understand someone being so in love with their wife to be willing to do anything to make her happy, including letting her get fucked by another guy.

You really are begining to frighten me.

I know it's a morbid way of empowering black men, but I personally feel that it's degrading and a send back to the "massuhs" secret fantasy of watching his buck defile his wife.

Okay, sorry for going "there" but I only did that because 90% of all cuckolding porn is centered around "White chick/black dick."

:yup: and that's exactly why I don't like most hetero porn. It doesn't excite me it disgusts me to see black men used in that fashion. :12:

What's the difference between a married couple cuckolding and three single people having a threesome?

The marriage certificate! Also in a threesome everybodys sexual needs are met, not so in a classic cuckold scenario.

Does that wedding ring double as a chastity belt?

Yes, it's supposed to! That's why there is only room for two names on the marriage certificate and not three or more.

It's just fucking sex, he's not beating her, he's not cheating on her, he's not stealing from her, it's two consenting adults.

Actually in the cuckold scenario which the OP describes, it's 3 people. You young kids today just don't get it. They should never have gotten married because they make a mockery of the sacrament.

I have to disagree with the OP. If a husband and wife are willing to have an open relationship, who are we to judge? Half the men on this fucking planet cheat on their lovers anyway, human beings aren't designed for monogamy, that's some faux idealism that's been so engrained into our minds that anything else is deemed unholy and devilish.

I think that's a lie made up by women & men who want to fuck anything that smiles at them.

If they're being safe, more fucking power to 'em. I'd rather them have an open relationship and be honest with each other than to have the husband or wife sleeping with other people behind their spouse's back.

Hmm, I think I see your point but I think what the OP and a few others are saying is that if you know one person can't satisfy you sexually, then DON'T get married! Marriage is for two people not 3.

100%!

why are they even together in the 1st place?

Thank you! I feel the same way. How and why do you love someone who doesn't fulfill you sexually? If they are great everywhere but in the sack then that person should be a friend, NOT a husband.

I am so sick of hearing from guys who get off by NOT having sex with their wife while letting her get pounded by some other dude (if that makes any sense..).

I think those guys are complete retards, and should not have gotten married in the first place....i really dont think they should have children for that matter either....sorry, i just find the whole concept ridiculous....

I don't think they are 'retards' but I do think that is something they should seek counseling to treat. It might be related to low self esteem.

 

[Kassokilleri2ff]

I think its fucked up. A woman can use a vibrating dildo and cum like a mother fucker. But real sex will always be better. Why? Because its with another person. Its better because you're married and you love eachother and you have an emotional connection. I think its retarded that the guy wants her to have that with another man. Why not just get her a big dido and fuck her with that? If you cant give her good sex or good emotional connection, why even be with her?

 

[Principessa]

1872046[/FONT]]IIf you cant give her good sex or good emotional connection, why even be with her?

QFT!

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

If you cant give her good sex or good emotional connection, why even be with her?

I think that's the point of cuckolding. He CAN give her a good emotional connection, love, support, finances, children and a life long commitment. The one area he obviously isn't providing 100% in is sex so just because he cant make her orgasm does not mean they cant be happy in every other area of life.

In so many ways we don't fit into the traditional concept of marriage. We have same sex marriage, women dont stay home to clean house and raise the kids, they work. And people commit infidelity so why should sex in a marrige have to stay traditional?

 

[HazelGod]

sorry, i just find the whole concept ridiculous....

Agreed...that's right up there with SPH, IMO.

I think that's a lie made up by women & men who want to fuck anything that smiles at them.

That must be why more than half of all marriages end in divorce, right? Do you know what science calls an hypothesis that's contradicted by more than half of the empirical data?

 

[OCMuscleJock]

I think what a couple does in their personal lives is just that PERSONAL. If they didn't want to do it...then they wouldn't. No one has a right to force their personal beliefs on anyones chosen sexual desires...unless it is illegal. THEN well thats a different story. HOWEVER, If couples like this kind of thing, more power to them. My parnter of 11 yrs gets off on watching me fuck or get fucked buy someone else. *not that it happens often* but It can be VERY erotic and enhance a couple's normal sexual endeavors together to bring in that kind of spice on occation.

 

[B_Nick8]

Human beings aren't "designed" for monogamy marley? Got to disagree with you on that one. I don't care how anyone else structures their life but that's a choice I make and a gift I give to only one person and a rule I live by in my relationships.

Anything that happens between two consenting adults is fine by me and I make no judgment calls but I live my life by design.

 

[OCMuscleJock]

How and why do you love someone who doesn't fulfill you sexually? If they are great everywhere but in the sack then that person should be a friend, NOT a husband.

Ok, for the sake of argument. What if the couple had not had sex before marriage? People still do that...LOTS of people. How would they even know? I was going to wait till I got married to have sex...of course that didn't last..hahaha.. BUT However, it was the plan. You can TOTALLY love someone and not be sexual with them. Intamacy isn't always fucking. Also, if this kind of thing enhances their marriage in one way or another, then how is it wrong?

 

[CALAMBO]

The activity that is on topic is a private matter between adults...commenting on such is fine w/me...judging others who are living a differnt life can never be a good thing....the need for sex is primal...i respect that...

 

[kazooplayer]

After talking to a guy who is in a cuckold marriage i realize it is one of the most unselfish things a man could do. Sure he gets off on seeing his wife getting fucked by another man but he is prepared to put aside his own ego for her sexual satisfaction.

Exactly. I'm in no way a cuckold, nor would I ever bull for anyone, cause it is pretty crazy shit, but I totally respect guys who understand that sex is just sex, and if they can't provide for their wife in one fashion, they're willing to set aside their ego so that someone else can; how selfless is that? And I'm definitely not saying it's all selfless - I know there is a fetish aspect to it, but who doesn't have a fetish nowadays, and who is anyone to judge?

The marriage certificate! Also in a threesome everybodys sexual needs are met, not so in a classic cuckold scenario.

Yes, it's supposed to! That's why there is only room for two names on the marriage certificate and not three or more.

Actually in the cuckold scenario which the OP describes, it's 3 people. You young kids today just don't get it. They should never have gotten married because they make a mockery of the sacrament.

Hmm, I think I see your point but I think what the OP and a few others are saying is that if you know one person can't satisfy you sexually, then DON'T get married! Marriage is for two people not 3.

Thank you! I feel the same way. How and why do you love someone who doesn't fulfill you sexually? If they are great everywhere but in the sack then that person should be a friend, NOT a husband.

I don't think they are 'retards' but I do think that is something they should seek counseling to treat. It might be related to low self esteem.

And God made the Universe in six days, and put dinosaur bones on Earth to test our faith, right? Right...

 

[UpwardCurve]

Another reason i think cuckholding is completely stupid is because as it gets more common, guys who would never whore their wife out to another man (because that is what it is essentially) get pressured by their wife if she is influenced by the amount of couples who are doing this (the "he is doing this for her, why arent you doing it for me?" effect).

Also, what kind of example does it set for their kids??

 

[Scrufuss]

Its more like a MENTAL retardation...
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[nudedude1963]

Do you really think they discuss their sexual activities with their kids???/

 

[Scrufuss]

Do you really think they discuss their sexual activities with their kids???/

They do if the kid is a result of a cuckholding...

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

guys who would never whore their wife out to another man (because that is what it is essentially)

So you have the same opinion of men who have 3-some? its the same thing right? Sexual pleasure from seeing your partner with another person

 

[ZOS23xy]

Not everyone holds the same viewpoints as another. The initial post presented a view I*find weird. But I've had three somes and have watched my wife pleasured by another man.

It seems nice. I've enjoyed the view.

But I find it uncomfortable if it were a pathological impulse to do so.

 

[D_Selmus_Swallow]

I don't find it retarded. But since I already spend enough time not getting laid as is, I can't really embrace it either. I mean usually I go for my partner's pleasure as a goal as is, so I don't really get the idea of contracting that responsibility out to another party while not getting anything out of it myself other than the knowledge that my partner is getting satisfied. But in that case it would have to be for something that I could not provide, and I'm hard- pressed to think of what I would not be able to provide.

I mean, if she was obsessed with getting fucked by an average-sized cock...well then that's one example I guess.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

If you don't get it, you just have to accept you don't get it. No need to call anyone names or be mean about it.

I personally love it when I'm fucking a guy to have his boyfriend lick my balls at the same time. No problem whatsoever.

 

[Principessa]

That must be why more than half of all marriages end in divorce, right? Do you know what science calls an hypothesis that's contradicted by more than half of the empirical data?

Actually most divorces are caused due to financial problems.

 

[amygdala]

For a site devoted to all-things-dick, you'd think there'd be a little more openmindedness than there seems to be here. What two, three, or any amount of consenting adults choose to do in the privacy of their own bedrooms is no business of anyone but them. If it's something you don't get or don't like, the solution's pretty simple - don't do it. It pisses me off to no end when others try to push their concept of morality on anyone else.