Does anyone else have trouble cumming with a condom?

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My cock can be hard as a rock,the min I put a condom on it goes soft in my hand. Hate those things, I can get it back up and pound An ass or pussy hard and never cum. (partner enjoys it) I have to take it off spank it till It cum.
 
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My cock can be hard as a rock,the min I put a condom on it goes soft in my hand. Hate those things, I can get it back up and pound An ass or pussy hard and never cum. (partner enjoys it) I have to take it off spank it till It cum.
Then the condom is either to big or too small. The rest is mental
 

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I would have thought that uncut guys would pull back their foreskin, slip on the condom and then the condom AND their foreskin would move back and forth thereby giving that skin on skin feeling. Is that not the case? Maybe with guys with lots of foreskin - one that just never seem to move even when stroking - it can be problematic.

That's why I recommended the Pleasure Plus condoms. There's more than enough space to move around. Tight condoms do nothing for me but these work well.
 

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I don't like condoms either, but they are sometimes necessary. They definitely kill some sensitivity, and I can go longer because of this sometimes. I can usually finish with the condom, but I get paranoid that it will break, or something like that will happen. I have had condoms break a few times, but they were cheap ones. Now that I use a quality condom, I get a better fit and can usually reach orgasm.

I am circumcised - I honestly don't understand how uncut guys can stand to use condoms - it just doesn't seem like it would work well.
 

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Can't tell about everyone, but at least my dick has an area around the head that holds the foreskin just fine (to the point that, if I'm not lubrified, I have sometimes to use my fingers to help the foreskin go back up), and the condom is usually tight enough as not to allow the foreskin to move back and forth. But my foreskin is not huge, it's just enough to completely (or almost completely, depending on how hard and, therefore, large, I am at the moment) cover my head, if I'm not pressing it up.

When I was younger (like 17 or so) I usually had problem sliding the condom down from the "depression" area between the head and the body of my cock, but I guess that area has thickened and doesn't trap the condom anymore.

Condoms are a lot of trouble, but I'd probably still be a virgin if I wouldn't wear condoms, since the girls I've been with all required condoms (except after we had a somewhat long-term relationship). And so do I, scared as I am from getting an STD. So I don't hate it.

I'd like to hear from other uncut guys if they have more trouble than I do or what.
 

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Not me. I have no trouble maintaining an erection with a condom, probably because most of the years I had sex, I was wearing one. It takes me longer to cum with a condom than without (15 to 20 minutes v 3-5), but I'm not sure that's a bad thing! I'm uncut, use a few drops of Astroglide on my cock before I unroll the condom. I also wear Magnum Thins, which I prefer over the thicker condoms. I hope you find a solution that's safe (in all meanings of that word) and gets you laid often in the New Year!
 

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If by "natural" condoms, you mean the non-latex lambs skin type, they might prevent pregnancy but do not provide an effective barrier to STDs. They seem to only be useful for birth control in faithfully monogamous married couples.
Condoms seem to work much better on the penis which has the skin cut off, rather than the natural intact whole penis. I can use one if I pull my skin completely down exposing the inner penis before putting the condom on. I use aloe vera gel as a natural soothing emollient on the penis before putting on the condom, and then use that as lube unless the other person wants to use something else. It is hardly worth the effort for me to use a condom, and I prefer to just avoid vaginal or anal penetration, and I only do it when it is to please the other person. I certainly would not have penetrative sex without a condom! Just oral and manual stimulation is great with me. There is some risk, but relatively low risk. There is no way that I would get one of the best parts of my genitals cut off to facilitate the use of a condom. The foreskin itself provides hundreds of times more pleasure to me than pentrative sex with a condom. And most of my sexual pleasure is from visual stimulation, mental stimulation, and masturbation alone. That would be destroyed by male genital mutilation even though it would make the use of a condom easier.
 

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I find it very difficult to impossible to cum with condom with pussy sex---its frustrating--am I the only one????

Any sex at all with a condom feels awful for me. The whole 'going all night long' thing is something people only seem to enjoy in sitcoms. I once went a solid 50 minutes (actually timed it) of vigorous thrusting (not just 'sex', but the actual fast part) without coming. My then-girlfriend almost never came vaginally (before we met, she thought she couldn't :) ) so mostly she just loved feeling fucked, a feeling she was well past by that point.
 

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I am circumcised - I honestly don't understand how uncut guys can stand to use condoms - it just doesn't seem like it would work well.

It works well enough. I've had no real issues.

As far as climaxing with a condom on, it just takes far longer.
 

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I also wear Magnum Thins, which I prefer over the thicker condoms.

I also use these - the thin is way better than the regular, and before I tried Magnums, it was way too tight. My favorite condom out of all I have tried.

It works well enough. I've had no real issues.

As far as climaxing with a condom on, it just takes far longer.

I know it is common for uncut guys to use them, it just seems like it would be a strange sensation to have your foreskin held back. I've always been cut, so it has been a curiosity for me.
 

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Like many guys here I don't especially like condoms but I can cum with one on ok. They always feel so foreign to me. In reality they are a barrier and therefore feel like one physically and psychologically.
 

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use a shit ton of lube on yur dick before putting on the condom. it helps

Applying a bit of lube before putting the condom on does help - especially for us uncut guys. It allows for some movement within the condom without risk of it coming off (unless you're wearing a condom that's too big for your dick - which people actually do).